LIFE IS FRAGILE

LIFE IS FRAGILE

"Reasons for changes...We generally change ourselves for one of two reasons: inspiration or desperation." Jim Rohn

Hi! Everyone.

Sometimes we sit down and we ponder do we really value our life or do we live life because we happen to exist in this world? If that is life to us then it has no meaning.

Life has a wider meaning than just eat, work and sleep. 

Life is beautiful if we open our eyes and look around. God has put so much beauty in this world. When we wake up and see the sunrise. It is so magnificent - no words can describe it. The crisp and fresh air surrounding us but sadly has been destroyed by mankind through pollution. The trees and flowers around us- the wonders of nature. Sadly most people do not take the time to appreciate this beautiful world as they caught in the rat race until it is too late. 

Please take time to appreciate your life. 

Life is great and offers a lot of experiences and challenges. Whether we can overcome these challenges or not depend on ourselves. To be able to overcome them would enrich our lives. To learn from our mistakes and to get up from where we fall would make our life more colourful. A life well lived is a life filled with mistakes and overcoming them

Uncertain

There is nothing rosy or permanent in this world. Life also is full of uncertainties. No one can see the future and predict it with absolute certainty. It is the uncertainties in  life that made it interesting and colourful like the rainbow in the sky. Though life is full of challenges do not be afraid to savour every moment of it. You will definitely emerge stronger and be able to value your life more. Do not let your past haunt you. Let it be like the dew which will dry up once the sun rise. Move ahead as no one can alter the past.. If we can accept this then life becomes more meaningful

Versatile

People are born with different capabilities and are able to manipulate them to suit the challenges and obstacles of life. Have the right mindset and perspective overcome the obstacles.  With every successful venture life becomes more varied and interesting.

Non judgmental

View and accept things in the right perspectives and not based on our biases and prejudices as well as our narrow mindedness. Be subjective and respect other people's  opinions even though it differs from yours. Nothing except God and His words are absolute right. Therefore do not waste your precious time arguing with people with narrow perspectives

If you can cultivate all the above attributes, then your life has become meaningful and varied that is a life well-lived. From time to time reflect and rebuild your life so that it is more complete.

Let us stay united as one unit and help each other to shape our lives in accordance with what we desire.

BE YOUR DRIVING FORCE

Very good day ! Everyone.

To excel is to do better or to be proficient in any areas or subjects . Therefore to be exceptionally good ie excellent one needs both inspiration and motivation to achieve it. The journey towards achieving it may be arduous and challenging.

Dream

To excel , planning alone is not sufficient. One has to dream as well for dream will provide fuel to smoothen your journey

Desire

To act may not be good enough. You need a lasting and burning desire to undertake the journey especially if it is a tough and strenuous one. 

Affirmation

Action alone is not sufficient. You need to affirm and reaffirm your action until you are convinced and convicted wholeheartedly that this is the right path. Then there will not be a time that you are thinking of abandoning the path but you will chose to embark with your journey with greater determination. 

Yes there may be modification or rectification to your action especially if the outcome has deviated from your desired one. 

Faith

Faith is just like our muscles. You need exercise to build them. It is just like a tiny mustard seed which eventually grew into a huge tree. Its roots need to grow deeply into ground so that it is able to weather any storms. 

Therefore, my friends, it is always essential to grow our faith just like the mustard tree.

Please share if you like this post. You may help someone who truly need this road map to navigate their journey.

Thank you everyone and hope you all will uphold me in your prayers. 

HAPPINESS

HAPPINESS

Happy day Everyone!

Happiness  is a  state of mind . Some people are happy because they do not have any issues. It actually depends on the individuals.

Others may look to more issues such as challenges in life, personal growth , wealth as well as spiritual growth before they can classified themselves as happy.

Challenges 

We have to be clear what we want. If we want to climb higher, we may need to train our muscles more efficiently. Thus if we want to achieve our optimum point, we can’t remain static but we need to employ all available resources. The choice is clearly up to the individuals to meet their expectations. 

Satisfaction

To be satisfied, one needs to work hard and be fully committed. The level of satisfaction depends on t amount of efforts put in.

Fulfillment 

Once there is satisfaction, the fulfillment is achieved.

Purpose 

Have you found your ultimate purpose in life? If not continue to search. No one can help you to walk the path. You have to take bold and brave measures as well as have clarity of mind before you can envision and achieve your ultimate purpose. Do not worry if you have not achieved it. Be steadfast and move forward and you will ultimately find it.

I believe you have to attain all the above aspects only you can say that you are happy.

Stay tuned and I love to share with all any issues relating to life and its challenges. 

Please share for sharing is caring. Love to hear from you all. Thank you

RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR FINAL OUTCOME

RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR FINAL OUTCOME

Greeting from Kuala Lumpur!

Have you ever wondered why most flights reached their final destinations safely? Of course there are some exceptions but those are negligible. It is because it involves a lot of planning , allocation of resources like fuel consumption, various types of food and drinks to be carried on board etc. has to be managed meticulously. Therefore for any ventures to be successful, careful thoughts and considerations need to be considered before they can be accomplished. To me if i want to treat and recover from cancer , i also need to plan and strategise my treatment plans

Relationship to strategy

What is Strategy? Strategic planning is the process of developing your objectives, strategies and tactics to achieve your ultimate goal for instance to recover from cancer.  First you need to take full responsibility of the ultimate outcome you desire to, without any complaint whatsoever.

Next, you need to develop a strategy.  Steps and tactics that are credible are then developed accordingly.  Leveraging on external resources is a tactic tied to personal satisfaction and  the improvement of strategy.

Begin with end in your mind

Using the above metaphor of the airplane, it is best practice to always begin the end in our mind. This will not only ensure that we will reach our final destination but also will be more efficient in using all our available resources. 

Start with the best and positive practices

Just imagine that you have reached your final destination.  Your action and habit will act accordingly. You will slowly and surely mould yourself to behave in this manner as your mind cannot differentiate between real and imaginary. Can you recall when you first started to drive? How did you behave then? You could not even speak to anyone in the car. Why? This is because your mind is preoccupied with the gear, direction and the other vehicles around you.. My point here is that deliberate practice makes permanent progress. It is clear that it is not how much you save........., it's the habit of saving that matters. Distinction between these two phrases is of paramount importance in determining the chances of any success.

Never let negativity put you down. Do away with unfavourable comments and discouragement which may dampen your spirit.

Therefore to be able to keep up to these challenges, we need to equip ourselves with critical thinking skills to be able to differentiate between right and wrong as well as to be able to adopt a viable strategy to achieve the end..

SUPERCHARGE MY CONDITION

Greetings from Kuala Lumpur

Although I am still recuperating from my recent surgery, I have a very busy and interesting day filled with various activities. Actually, this is the time where I should be resting and recover my strength but I am thankful that I felt strong and well enough to undertake these activities.

The long-awaited day arrived, where I was invited as a guest at the Mira investment luncheon, as my article was selected to be republished in the Mira investment supplement for 2017.

Last Saturday, I was also invited to two functions that truly made my life meaningful. This has kept me busy and distracted my mind from my illness. During the functions, I had the opportunity to mingle with people who are energetic and full of ideas and this has motivated me to move forward。

After the well-deserved lunch, I went to collect my new car. This again cheered me up as I would be able to go on trips with my family without fear that the car would break down. I suddenly had the urge and inspiration to do better than this. This would definitely motivate me and not let my illness drag and depress me.

I made a silent vow that I am going to use my time wisely and usefully to create more meaningful activities that will enhance my health as well as live harmoniously with my family.

Therefore I am going to continue writing to express my ideas freely and to develop myself to be the person I intend to be. To achieve this, I intend to start my training from mid-Nov 2017, that is three months after my surgery.

Pray that the Lord's power will heal me by then. Thank you, everyone, for your prayers and support.

CONNECTING MY MISSING DOTS

Greeting from Kuala Lumpur!

How time flies!!! It has been nearly two months since I have my first major surgery to remove 60% of my stomach. Thank the insight God for empowering me to have a speedy recovery and to give me the insight to see the bigger picture of my life.Life is not limited to finding ourselves., but growing our inner strengths to contribute significantly to the benefits of the masses

Big picture

To see the bigger picture in life, we need to have clarity of mind, to be able to reflect who we really are and what are our purposes in life. Once we have mapped up these issues, we have to plan our strategies and try our level best to materialize them one by one.

Mental Strength

In my mid-forties, I suffered a great depression after failing to seek justice for my stillborn child. It was then that I embraced Christianity and with God's managed to come out of the depression not only unscathed but also developed further my mental strengths.

Spiritual Strength

After I have invited Christ to my life my spiritual strength became stronger. I could relate to God and his words became alive to me. I was reborn and transformed through our Heavenly Father.

Physical strength

It is time for me to address the fundamental root of my problems. I lack the physical strength to carry out my strategies. However, with the ultimate power bestowed to me by the Almighty, I am regaining strength to tackle those issues that are still haunting me. I want to feel good every day and see the beauty in others.

Thank you, Lord, for allowing me to embrace this beautiful n fruitful life.

Let me rise again, my Lord so that I can complete more missions so that I can share these blessings with the masses.

Tq everyone for your care and prayers. God is awesome to make me rise again.

ACCEPT THING AS IT IS

Greetings from Malaysia

It is God's plan that I have cancer at this stage of my life. I cannot do anything but to accept it positively and to overcome it with God's help and mercy.

First I have to make drastic changes from the unhealthy lifestyle I have been practicing for the past few decades to a more healthy one. I have to make the best of it as it is no point being bitter about it.

As it is common for cancer patients to have a huge weight loss, I have to take steps either to regain what is lost or to maintain my present weight. I believe the latter is better as I can look slim and fit in my new attires. It also makes me aware that I need to change my diet for a more nutritious and balanced one. I believe God's timing is perfect as I am still young and strong to battle cancer. Should it happen in the latter part of my life, I may not be physically or mentally strong to cope with it.

Having cancer has opened my mind to new challenges. For example, I can now inject myself with my prescribed medications. Formerly the sight of needles be it thin or thick will give me the shivers but now I have overcome this fear. I had to turn my eyes away from the person who was administering the injection. I am glad that God is beside me all the time to urge me to move on.

At this stage of my life, I have to learn to take things in my stride and to be more conscious of my health. As such, i need to take up less stressful tasks but not giving up performance at the same time. In order that I am not too weary, I need to take more rest and nap when necessary. A tired body will be too weak to battle effectively. I am sure God is always by my side to urge and give me strength.

I have also realize that to have a healthy and strong body, exercise is very vital. To accomplish this I have registered for qigong lessons as well as to take morning walks alternatively. A strong body will breed good immunity and a healthy soul and mind. God will only help those who help themselves.

Proactive measures have to be taken to ensure I have a healthy and longer life.

Living longer is important to me at this stage. I have a lot of incomplete missions. One of them is to build a more harmonious n happy family for I have busy chasing my career and have neglected my family. I also need to see that my children have enough funds to finish their degrees and graduate.

Thank you God for making me aware of my incomplete missions and give me a second chance to live and to accomplish all these missions. A happy and harmonious home will make life shine.

As I encounter these challenges in my life it has helped to strengthen my faith in God. No doubt I am suffering but it has led me to see life in a different light. I know that it is God's challenge to me and I know that He is capable of leading me out of this adversity. God is great!!!

With God as my guide and counselor, no challenge is difficult to conquer. I will win the battle.

Thank everyone for your good wishes and prayers.
No challenge is difficult for me to conquer. Left out for me.