Happy day! reader,
I strongly believe that many people wanted to live their lives to its fullest and stay happy. The fundamental question here is - Are you happy? How many people actually made the decision to be happy in their life? A distinction must be made between a “wish” and “want”. Wish is something you don't need action to achieve and very different from the latter which needs an action to be taken to achieve it.
Do you wake up and look forward to have fun living each day simply by achieving something or doing something you truly love to do? Or are you having fun living your life right now? If not, have you ever wondered why you are not? Searching for a solution is definitely a good start.
Wouldn't it be awesome to wake up in the morning everyday full of gratitude for the opportunity to live as a great life and thereafter go all the way out and live it? How would that make you feel? What would it sound to you? What would it look like for you? You don’t have to answer them publicly if you do not want to.
Every of us can has all of the above and we can experience them. The question is whether you want to claim them right now, the gifts are from the one above who is so full of love for all of us. Do you believe me? Or do you ask yourself what we are talking about?
Obviously, we can feel there is something inside us, at the very least, who wants to believe these words. Allow me to share my story here.
I spent most of my 30 years adult life, excluding my formative childhood years, living my life according to other people's rules. I locked myself unconsciously into a formula that was essentially prescribed to me by the external environment such as government, society, etc., in which I was raised.
The usual and standard rule applies to most of us, which we all are very familiar with. It went something like this: get a good education, then a good job, thereafter work hard and save your money, put off what you love to do until you retire, avoid taking any high risks, and if you are lucky you will have a chance to enjoy yourself in your twilight years.
In my case, it actually was working out reasonably well by working extremely hard during my youth's time; earning a reasonable salary and other returns from my investment activities; had achieved a certain degree of success in my life. Or at least that's how it appeared on the outside.
Conversely I was miserable inside. I was caught up in the silent struggle of my day-to-day life, literally, without knowing what I was actually trying to achieve. I was definitely not living the life of my dreams, the life I love.
Thereafter I embarked my soul searching journey, which I have blogged out at the link below:-
One day I simply decided it needs to change. I chose to wake up and take different course of actions to make those changes that can bring me different results. The insane definition then struck out from my mind that say I cannot achieve different outcome by doing things in the same manner I used to do.
Finally there came a day when I simply couldn't take it anymore and I then made the decision that it was time to stop. The most invaluable decision to change the way I was living and to jump off from the treadmill. I made the decision to change my life by beginning to live my life on my own terms.
The effect was magical. I felt relieved, alive and inspired far beyond words. I then began to enjoy my life and pursue my dreams, one after the other. And so now here I am suggesting to you that you too can begin to live the life you want, or you love right now if you believe and do so beginning now. Because all it really takes is for you to make the decision. Life is a choice.
It may sounds simplistic, yet it's true and deep down there's a part of you that knows it's true. So, by making such a decision, single mental decision, that caused everything to change. Everything will change when you change your perspective. It must start from your mind first.
For those who know me long enough would see my decision led to some very explicit actions. I resigned from my job and decided to pursue my dream and build my own business online and offline. Frankly to you, I strongly believe that it will work; I’m able to pay the bills or keep the kids fed and clothed, despite not having a crystal clear idea yet. Looking forward, my direction is going to be clearer as each day passed by. Of that, I can surely say so.
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Well, till now things have been working out beautifully. The sky didn't fall. The world didn't end. Things have certainly changed for the better; I expanded my networks and don't hang out with all the same people I used to. I need to stay with the similar minded people to work things out for our mutual benefits. My activities have become more focused on family and friends as opposed to fitting things around my job. In short, I live a much more relaxed and fulfilling life. I can sense that I reaped the benefits of living my life to its fullest.
What about you? What do you love? What are the things you'd love to do right now with your life? Can you feel them calling you?
If you can, then listen to and follow them. One thing that is absolutely true: there is no need to struggle in your life. You are a conqueror and can make thing real whatever you believe is real. This is the basic law of the universe, the law of attraction and law of abundance.
The very first thing to do is to let go of your bondage; set yourself free and live the life you truly want on your terms. Let goes the bondage that drained your resources and are self defeating. You're somehow does not deserve that privilege. Do yourself a favour and stop marginalizing yourself. Every human being deserves to be happy and enjoy his life. That's the gist of living and experience the joy of it.
The whole idea of following your bliss can be extremely frightening because that fear leads to all sorts of wild emotions that are part of us. Be mindful that the fear is all in our heads and hearts, it's all about what you imagine might happen and not necessary real. Therefore, do not let your fears to define and control you.
Our thoughts, words, and actions become us. They define us and the summation of who we are being. So this begs the question, who do you want to be? Stay connected with your ‘true self’ and find out who you want to be and then start being that person right now. Begin to live your passion and enjoy your life. It's very much easier than you expect. It's remarkably easy to let the “how” unfold and let inspiration be your guide. They will never misguide you. Being focused on who and what you want to be, you will be inspired to think the thoughts, use the words and take the actions that make your true self a reality. The law of the universe applies here - the more you be, the more you will do and the more you will have of whatever you want. The more you will be living the life that you love. This circle repeats over and over again with each cycle reinforcing and reaffirming who you are and what you love to be. It's a magnificent thing. It's freedom.
Alternatively, if fear dictates you, then the adverse will then happen to you. Finally, you will be the captive of your own fear.
Now the choice is yours. Feel free to comment on this article.
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