Miracle Oh Miracle !!!

Miracle Oh Miracle !!!

Hi everyone,

The words of the oncologist kept ringing in my ears. The most I give you is 6 months to one year if you do not continue your chemotherapy treatment. These words kept ringing in my mind. As I made my way out of the clinic, I was so desperate and distressed. If you have followed my article titled 'God have Mercy' you will know that I have a few personal missions to accomplish. However, the doctor went on to tell me that even if I continue with chemotherapy my chance of surviving the next 5 years will be only 20%. Such motivating information to induce me to continue with chemotherapy? I couldn't think, I was at a loss as to what to do. I then decided to call my daughter to see if she is free to accompany for a few hours. Seeing that my life may end soon, I decided to have a feast and go on a shopping spree with my daughter. I felt much better after the outing. I proceeded to eat the king of fruits which I am been longing for but was forbidden from partaking it. I don't care since eat or don't eat also does not make any difference.

After that, I went home and sat down to think rationally. I cannot accede defeat. I am strong and I have faith in God to heal me. I am not going to be influenced by the statistics and be gunned down by the odds.

Therefore I decided I am going to condition my mind to erase the word cancer from it. From the latest scientific research you can condition your mind by using creative imagination or by faking it until you really feel that it is real

In my case, I am not suffering from cancer. It is possible to make our mind think like that because our mind can't differentiate real or fake situation. With this, I am going to behave like a normal person n do normal things. I will just focus on happy thoughts n actions. A healthy mind will breed a healthy body and the cancer cells if any in my body will slowly dissipate. Yes, a miracle can happen. It had happened once and it can happen again.

I had lived with the notion that I am a Hepatitis B carrier for decades. I accepted that verdict from the doctor decades ago but because of my condition, I had to do a blood test. Miraculously the test was negative. I couldn’t believe my ears when the doctor told me. I had a test to reconfirm the results. It is true. Praise the Lord. 

I read that there is an alternative technique called As-if technique.  It is by way of self-manipulating your mind to make it believe that you have achieved the state of mind that you craved. In my case, I am no longer a cancer patient. It will then fuel your emotion and your senses to accept that created state. I am definitely going to condition my brain to eradicate the word cancer from my mind. It will no longer be in my .vocabulary. I will continue to focus on eating healthy and doing exercise as well as continue my treatment. The rest I will leave to God's hands. 

Please share and continue to upload me in your prayers. Thank you.

BE A BETTER ME

Hi! Gals and Guys,

No one is born perfect. Since accepting Christ in my life, I let Christ transform Me into a new creation. I believe and have trust in God that I will be able to walk by faith, not by sight.  I need to rid my mind of any unhealthy thoughts and only allow the right and positive thoughts to prevail.

For the remaining part of my life, I would like to lead a happy and meaningful life. I am going to accept things as it is and will not try to be biased or to discriminate. I will weigh everything carefully before passing judgment. Try to keep my cool and be patient and to control my thoughts and actions so as not to voluntarily cause hurt to others. My motive in life is simple; to make others happy so that I too am happy. I believe that if I am happy my health will also improve. 

I now endeavor to make my life better and not bitter. I no longer want to compete and compare with others. I am going to be satisfied with what God has given me. All this while I was caught up in the rat race trying to be better and accumulate more wealth than others. When I see others more successful than me, I would work myself harder. No longer am I interested in achieving all this. A simple and healthy life is what I aspire now. I want to create a New and Better me. My own trademark and own identity.

To me, I need to preserve my health and stay so as not to burden my beloved family. If anything happens to me, they will be distressed and I will also not be happy as I have not achieved my missions. Therefore I now pray to God to grant me good health.

In my journey to seek good health and happiness, I must constantly remind myself not only to maintain healthy thoughts but also to love and care unconditionally all those close to me. I must protect them and ensure that they too are happy. Now I constantly seek guidance from God and pray for his wisdom to guide me. 

I seek your help to ask the Lord to empower me to carry out all these tasks. Yes, I can do it through Christ who strengthens me. You are the Lord of all possibilities and nothing is impossible for you.

LIFE IS IRONIC

LIFE IS IRONIC

Dear all, 

Life is ironic but yet beautiful. To some people life is beautiful. They know how to capitalise their resources to make life great and beautiful. While to another person life is such a misery trying to make ends meet or trying to cure that deadly disease. Therefore it is not easy to classify life into categories but to look it at different perspectives.

Whatever we do not take life for granted. It is to our advantage to always love our body and to take care of it appropriately so that we can stay healthy and happy. Be aware that stress is a silent killer. So stay away from it by remaining calm and relax although the situation may not permit. Constantly remind ourselves that there is no point in getting worked up. Always treat our body with care and not like a machine. Be gentle and stay calm always.

Never overwork,

Never under work,

Don't "don't" work.

Try never to argue with another person if he chose not to be rational or reasonable.  Accept things as they are. There is no point not interested in listening to your viewpoints. They will accept whatever reasons they are more comfortable with. We are living in the age of technology where social media is rampant. People are actively engaged in it to expose whatever they are not happy about. Be transparent and make sure that we do not intentionally or unintentionally hurt another person so do not have to be wary about being exposed. Be wise and be transparent. Treat people with respect and in turn, you will be treated with respect.  Remember it is better to give than to receive.

Respect cannot be bought. It has to be earned. Therefore always adhere to the rhymes below:

Happiness keeps you sweet!

Trials keep you strong!

Sorrows keep you human!

Failure keeps you Humble!
Success keeps you Glowing!

But only, Faith keeps you Going!

So, walk by faith, and not sight.

Self-assessed Questions

a. Do we want to accept and enjoy life as it is?

b. Do you want more out of life than what you are capable of?

Do not compare yourself with people who are better off than you are. Never aspire to own things that you can't afford. This will lead to your destruction as you will get into debts just to show off . Be humble and be satisfied with what God has given you. 

Jealousy and envy will not bring you happiness

Some people are never satisfied with what they have. For instance, you may not like your life but there are others who would like to be in your shoes.

A child on a farm sees a plane fly overhead dreams of flying. But, a pilot on the plane sees the farmhouse and dreams of returning home.

No one can have a perfect life. It is up to you to modify it to suit your need. Be thankful to God that you are still alive. Therefore :

That's life

Be happy

Enjoy yours

The fundamental lies :

If wealth is the secret to happiness, then the rich should be dancing on the streets. But only poor kids do that.  

If power ensures security, then VIPs should walk unguarded. But those who live simply, sleep soundly.  

If beauty and fame bring ideal relationships, then celebrities should have the best marriages. 

The moral Is to 

Live simply, 

be happy! 

Walk humbly and love genuinely! 

A beautiful message is not only to be read but to apply practically in our personal life but also to be shared with all people who are dear and truly loved by us.

GREAT PARENTING

Dear all,

Do you know that God has richly blessed me with 4 wonderful kids? One has returned to God to live in a better place. Now I share my life with Clinton, Alex and Jasmine.

Now I share my life with my three children Clinton...

I am very grateful that God has given me the opportunity to raise these wonderful children. No doubt it is not easy to bring them up especially in this challenging world.

Parenthood is more challenging than any other jobs in the world. To bring up 3 different children with different temperaments is not easy. I treat each of them differently to bring out their individual interest. It is indeed rewarding to see them become useful adults. No doubt there are no perfect beings in this world. To be blessed with parenthood is one of the greatest joys in the world.

I have realised from my own experience as a father and from research that I have done that the most important role of parents is to love, nurture and to help them to build up the right attitude and self-accountability as well as to develop their inner strength. These criteria are not easy to carry out but not impossible.

To experience successful parenting, we have to be clear that children can't be treated as our property .we have to realise that they are unique with their own characteristics and creativity. They have a life, unlike our house or car. They are given to us by God to love an nurture.

Yes, children are precious gifts bestowed to us by God. Therefore we should always treasure them and help them to blossom like the flowers in our gardens

To enjoy the beauty and fragrance of the flowers, much care, and nurture need to be given. So also with our children. We should always encourage them to pursue their desires and interests. Never suppress them. Then you will see them wither like the falling leaves of autumn. Therefore always respect your child's wishes within limits and allow him to blossom.

I hope you have enjoyed this post. Please click and leave a comment just below this post. Share if you can for sharing is caring. Thank you and may God bless you.

DON'T SET THE LIMIT

Hi ! Gals and Guys,

Don’t set limits

Sometimes when we see someone achieve success we neither feel happy nor congratulate the person for his achievements. Instead, we are envious and jealous of his success. Shouldn't we be happy for him and try to emulate him?

Envy and jealousy would harm us. What we should do is to let his success motivates and encourages us to work harder so that we are also successful.

For instance, it used to be an indisputable FACT that it was IMPOSSIBLE for a human to run a mile in less than 4 minutes.

But then Roger Bannister came along and broke the 4-minute barrier in 1954. 

What happened then?

In less than 3 years, more than a dozen other runners broke the 4-minute mark too - and now, being able to run a mile in under 4 minutes is pretty commonplace among professional distance runners.

Yes, sometimes we need a little spark to ignite your mind to spur us to achieve what others are experiencing. Therefore we have to:

Unleash 

Once we realised that we have our own talents and potentials then we should take the opportunity to unleash them. We should not be bothered that we lack the capabilities to do it. God has made each and every one unique in our own ways. We can never find a replica of ourselves. If we have faith in God n confidence in ourselves every task should be manageable and if we put in enough efforts we should be able to reap success. Go ahead and unleash your potentials both for the wellbeing of yourself and mankind.

We only live once so go all out to make an impact.

Unlimited  

No one is born with limited capability.  It is how you see yourself and how you nurture these capabilities to their maximum potentials.

If you can identify all the capabilities then only can you develop and evolve them to help you to attain success? Give yourself a chance so that you won't regret later. Remember your time in this world is limited.  Therefore pursue them now before you regret. 

Unfold

Once you have identified your unlimited potentials then it is time to unfold them one by one. Now it is time to think carefully and creatively how to utilize these potentials to reap success for you. If you fail once it is ok. Get up and try again. All the successes in life have gone through a lot of trials. Never be afraid of failure. Instead, focus on innovating them until they become successes. You have to be fully committed and dedicated if you want to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Let your voice be heard and your potentials are unleashed for the benefits of everyone. Join us to make the world a beautiful and wonderful place to stay for generations and generations to come. Let us make a lasting and unforgettable impact.

P.S. please don’t keep this post to yourself. Share it widely

GOD HAVE MERCY

Hi Gals and Guys,

PRESS ON

PRESS ON

Hi Gals n Guys

Raise Your Words Not Your Voice.

It Is Rain that Grows Flowers, Not Thunder.

Like the previous article, I mentioned that everyone needs to have a dream before it can become a reality. To have a dream and then slowly work towards realizing it. A seed has to be planted before it can become a tree. For example today we have airplanes to bring us to faraway places. This has been made possible by the dream and subsequently its creation by the Wright brothers. Of course what we see today is has been modified extensively. Therefore dream on.

Mind

Once a dream has been mooted, ideas and thoughts will go through the mind as to how to accomplish the dream. Here one has to be selective, innovative and creative to choose those ideas that are beneficial to achieve your dream. Be careful about what goes through your mind. Choose wisely and reap your success. 

Thoughts 

A thought is an idea that comes to our mind. It is good to keep our mind healthy to have healthy and creative thoughts. Thoughts are needed to analyze and modify ideas to achieve the dream. Never underestimate the power of a dream. 

Words

Words can be more powerful than any weapon in this world. Be careful when we say something. Meaningful words can encourage and motivate as well as spur a person to achieve things that are beyond his capability. On the other hand, harsh and unkind words can destroy a person's morale and lead to self-destruction. Think carefully before you said anything lest you hurt someone for word is like a double-edged sword

Action     

A word becomes alive when action is taken. Be mindful of the actions that take. Take appropriate actions that can lead to your dreams being materialized. Then you can shout or scream 'Eureka'. Likewise, with words action can be a double-edged sword. Choose actions that will affirm your dream and not that will cause harm to others. Be creative and wise in selecting your actions and you will be triumphant.

Behaviour

The repeated action becomes behaviour. Ensure our mind is healthy to ensure good and proper behaviour.  Our mind is the epicenter of everything. Make use of it to choose wisely to act boldly. Fear not of its outcome if you have chosen to act positively and radically. If it does not work out have the courage to remedy it. No one is perfect. We must have the courage to undo any less workable ideas and forge ahead with our new ideas. The world is a beautiful place. Let us continue to make it a better and more beautiful place for generations to come. I' m sure everyone cares about it. Let us join hands together and work towards achieving it

Bless you, all my friends. Let us pray for God's wisdom and please pray that God will make me better. Praise and glory to all always. 

EVERY STEP COUNTS

Greetings from Kuala Lumpur.

In my previous post, I have shared that I had 60% of my stomach removed. Initially, I was very concerned that it is going to affect my lifestyle.  I would have a restricted diet and I can only consume a tiny portion of food compared to my pre-surgery days. However, with God's guidance and mercy, I am to accept this situation.

Smaller meals 

It is more logical and appropriate for me to enjoy smaller but more nutritional meals due to my smaller stomach. I now have to take a longer time to chew my food properly so that it can be easily digested unlike previously when i m always in a hurry and would just gobble my food. Now I can take time to appreciate the food which my wife had painstakingly prepared for me. Some would consider this a luxury and a blessing?

Walk 100 steps

Even for normal people, it is wise to walk around after your meals. What more for me. I have been advised to walk 100 steps after each meal. This is to aid digestion as well as for my overall health. Since I have to take more frequent meals it also means that I have to take more 100 steps. Wow !! This is going to improve my health.

Laughing out loud

I realise that I need not be too serious all the time. Why not do a complete turnaround? Why not laugh even at the smallest thing? People may think I'd have gone crazy but what do I care? Their opinions are immaterial to me. I just want to be happy and share my joy. I am sure a happy person will not only be productive but also improve the quality of their work. Yes, laughter is the best medicine. To be able to laugh heartily is half the battle won.

My friends, please try it. Let us know the outcome by putting your comments in the comment column just below this post.

However, I have faith in God as everything is under his control.  I believe He will give another chance to become a better person. Please pray for me. Amen

NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE

Nothing is impossible

"Plan ahead...Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." Robert Louis Stevenson.

I am grateful and indeed blessed by God to be given a second chance to see this beautiful world. I hope that I can be his vessel to share his love with everyone and to bring glory to Him. God, please empower me to carry out Your work.

Never show our weakness but instead use our strength to accomplish whatever we need to do. We need to head directly to head to our intended direction. We have to be clear where we are heading. If we want to experience the sunset then we have to head west and not east.

Faith

If we have faith in the Almighty we do not have anything to fear. Nothing is impossible with God's help. It is important to connect with God at all times and will be there to lend a helping hand at all times. No one will be abandoned by God as promised by Him. Therefore have faith in God and yourself to complete any tasks challenging or not.

Desire

Desire is wanting something desperately. If we desire to achieve something, for instance, I want to stay healthy and rid my body of the cancer cells. Therefore  I have to work hard to make sure that I have the right nutrition, exercise, and medication to ensure that I stay healthy.

Of course, I need God's blessings too. The journey may be long, tedious and painful but there is no choice. I need to stay healthy to accomplish my missions.

Action

If you want to make any significant changes to whatsoever, action needs to be strategized carefully and carried out. A determination is very important to ensure that the appropriate action is taken to complete the task. Let me assure you that to every problem there is a solution. It may take us a long time to unravel it but if we are creative and hardworking and with God's mercy we can definitely find a solution. 

Let us remain steadfast in our faith. Please share my dear friends. With time our thoughts and action are gaining momentum and are being refined.

TO BE UNSTOPPABLE

Hi ! Folks.


"You've done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities. Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable determination." Ralph Marston 

I am so glad that I can greet the dawn of another new day. I can smell the freshness and refreshing air around me. I m so grateful to God to give me this opportunity to be able to see this beautiful world again.

On this beautiful day let us embrace it wholeheartedly and make it a fruitful day.

Process

Right now I need to plan and manage the process of keeping myself healthy in order to recover from Cancer.  I have to make sure I eat healthy food to build up my immune system to prevent the cancer cells from invading my body. I know that nutrition is not enough I also need exercise to keep myself fit and also to have faith in God to heal me. To distract my mind from my disease I am actively posting my articles on facebook and blog.

Energy

Since removing 60% of my stomach I now have a smaller capacity for food. Smaller intake of food will mean that I have less energy to carry out my daily activities. To counteract this, I have to take more frequent meals and pray to the Almighty to ensure that my energy level is sufficient to maintain a healthy immune system for my body to destroy whatever cancer cells if any in my body. 

Mindful

My mind is now focused on the present. Whatever that happened in the past and whatever wrongs that I have committed I now ask for forgiveness. I now would like to dedicate my life to help my beloved family and those less fortunate than me. To this end, I ask God for help.

I believe by doing that I would have a better peace of mind. A healthy mind will breed a healthy body.

We do not have to fear anything if we managed our life well. Always do good and be forgiving. Life will be beautiful then.

Please share this post. I hope it can help someone n lift up their lives. May God's grace be with you all. 

LIFE IS FRAGILE

LIFE IS FRAGILE

"Reasons for changes...We generally change ourselves for one of two reasons: inspiration or desperation." Jim Rohn

Hi! Everyone.

Sometimes we sit down and we ponder do we really value our life or do we live life because we happen to exist in this world? If that is life to us then it has no meaning.

Life has a wider meaning than just eat, work and sleep. 

Life is beautiful if we open our eyes and look around. God has put so much beauty in this world. When we wake up and see the sunrise. It is so magnificent - no words can describe it. The crisp and fresh air surrounding us but sadly has been destroyed by mankind through pollution. The trees and flowers around us- the wonders of nature. Sadly most people do not take the time to appreciate this beautiful world as they caught in the rat race until it is too late. 

Please take time to appreciate your life. 

Life is great and offers a lot of experiences and challenges. Whether we can overcome these challenges or not depend on ourselves. To be able to overcome them would enrich our lives. To learn from our mistakes and to get up from where we fall would make our life more colourful. A life well lived is a life filled with mistakes and overcoming them

Uncertain

There is nothing rosy or permanent in this world. Life also is full of uncertainties. No one can see the future and predict it with absolute certainty. It is the uncertainties in  life that made it interesting and colourful like the rainbow in the sky. Though life is full of challenges do not be afraid to savour every moment of it. You will definitely emerge stronger and be able to value your life more. Do not let your past haunt you. Let it be like the dew which will dry up once the sun rise. Move ahead as no one can alter the past.. If we can accept this then life becomes more meaningful

Versatile

People are born with different capabilities and are able to manipulate them to suit the challenges and obstacles of life. Have the right mindset and perspective overcome the obstacles.  With every successful venture life becomes more varied and interesting.

Non judgmental

View and accept things in the right perspectives and not based on our biases and prejudices as well as our narrow mindedness. Be subjective and respect other people's  opinions even though it differs from yours. Nothing except God and His words are absolute right. Therefore do not waste your precious time arguing with people with narrow perspectives

If you can cultivate all the above attributes, then your life has become meaningful and varied that is a life well-lived. From time to time reflect and rebuild your life so that it is more complete.

Let us stay united as one unit and help each other to shape our lives in accordance with what we desire.

BE YOUR DRIVING FORCE

Very good day ! Everyone.

To excel is to do better or to be proficient in any areas or subjects . Therefore to be exceptionally good ie excellent one needs both inspiration and motivation to achieve it. The journey towards achieving it may be arduous and challenging.

Dream

To excel , planning alone is not sufficient. One has to dream as well for dream will provide fuel to smoothen your journey

Desire

To act may not be good enough. You need a lasting and burning desire to undertake the journey especially if it is a tough and strenuous one. 

Affirmation

Action alone is not sufficient. You need to affirm and reaffirm your action until you are convinced and convicted wholeheartedly that this is the right path. Then there will not be a time that you are thinking of abandoning the path but you will chose to embark with your journey with greater determination. 

Yes there may be modification or rectification to your action especially if the outcome has deviated from your desired one. 

Faith

Faith is just like our muscles. You need exercise to build them. It is just like a tiny mustard seed which eventually grew into a huge tree. Its roots need to grow deeply into ground so that it is able to weather any storms. 

Therefore, my friends, it is always essential to grow our faith just like the mustard tree.

Please share if you like this post. You may help someone who truly need this road map to navigate their journey.

Thank you everyone and hope you all will uphold me in your prayers. 

HAPPINESS

HAPPINESS

Happy day Everyone!

Happiness  is a  state of mind . Some people are happy because they do not have any issues. It actually depends on the individuals.

Others may look to more issues such as challenges in life, personal growth , wealth as well as spiritual growth before they can classified themselves as happy.

Challenges 

We have to be clear what we want. If we want to climb higher, we may need to train our muscles more efficiently. Thus if we want to achieve our optimum point, we can’t remain static but we need to employ all available resources. The choice is clearly up to the individuals to meet their expectations. 

Satisfaction

To be satisfied, one needs to work hard and be fully committed. The level of satisfaction depends on t amount of efforts put in.

Fulfillment 

Once there is satisfaction, the fulfillment is achieved.

Purpose 

Have you found your ultimate purpose in life? If not continue to search. No one can help you to walk the path. You have to take bold and brave measures as well as have clarity of mind before you can envision and achieve your ultimate purpose. Do not worry if you have not achieved it. Be steadfast and move forward and you will ultimately find it.

I believe you have to attain all the above aspects only you can say that you are happy.

Stay tuned and I love to share with all any issues relating to life and its challenges. 

Please share for sharing is caring. Love to hear from you all. Thank you