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Friday, October 23, 2009

HOW TO GET FASTER RESULTS : BE EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT

Happy day to everyone of you,

In today's rapidly changing world, it is a phenomena for almost everyone, if not everyone, to give excuse for not having enough time to do what they want. The reason we don’t recognize it as problematic is because we often think it is unchangeable or we take it for granted like the frog which does not jump out of the pot even though the heat is increasing.  We’re just get used to it. Let us be honest about it. Is it a real issue or are we not efficient? Worse still, are we blaming time to cover up our own weaknesses? Whatsoever the real reason is, it will never go away if we leave it unattempted.


However, God is fair and allocates 24 hours a day to each and everyone of us. If you have insufficient time , you need to review your situation seriously and take appropriate action to overcome it before it gets worse. To achieve this, you need to find better, efficient and more effective means  to perform  your daily tasks. If not, these tasks will pile up and you will it find more and more stressful as your Do Lists gets longer. I am sure no one wants to be caught in such a situation because we have enough stress. Do not forget that fatigue and stress are the biggest hazards of modern life, as they may lead to heart attack.


In this connection, I want to share some of the tips, from my own personal experience, which I find useful and I hope they will be useful  also to you. To simplify, I have listed  them in point form, as below:-


1. System
Try to establish an orderly system, which is work friendly and easy for you to retrieve your information speedily. No doubt there is more work initially, but it pays handsomely at the later stage. Try it out and you will be surprised at the outcome.


Do take note that your energy has an inverse relationship to the accumulation of stuff you do not need. The more unwanted, unused and unneeded stuff you have cluttering your life, the less energy you will have. Believe it or not the condition of your desk; office and living space will reflect  what is going on in your mind. If you take time to organize it , you will actually be freeing up a lot of  space in your mind, hence increasing your energy. .




2. Be precise
Make it a point to make your statement precise. I realize that it is not easy, therefore we need to improve the skill constantly. Most of the time, I find that lots of time are wasted as a result of not sending the message precisely.


3. Making use of the most effective mode of communication
Try to make it a habit to use the most effective mode of communication such as email especially if you have to send the same message to many people.. You will be surprised at its outcome as compared to other verbal means .


4. Do Lists
Make it a point to record down the tasks you need to perform. Then schedule them according to their  priority. In this manner, you  tend to be more efficient and effective.


5. Make use of your idling time
God is fair and has  given everyone 24 hours. Don't forget that everyone of us have idle time. Schedule creative work at these hours.


6. Do more than one thing at a time
You can do more than one thing at a time that is you can multi-task. The best example is that you can brush your teeth while making a long call at your toilet bowl.


7. Plan your daily tasks in advance
 Lots of time can be  saved if there are proper planning so that the tasks can be carried in the most efficient way.


8. Do not quit
Most of the time, we are defeated because we have given up. As such, we need to have faith in whatever we are doing and also to constantly reminding ourselves that we can do it.


9. Patience
You need to have patience.  When we faced problems then  only can we learnt to be patient.


10. Leave it and come back to it later

Leave it for a while and do something else. Then you may have  inspiration to resume your work with new and fresh idea/interest.


11 Do not push yourself unnecessary
Deadline is good, but you need to follow your heart so as to produce a masterpiece.  Be flexible is the key.


12. Do not be too anxious
Do not worry unnecessary, but respond to it. By reacting to it, you will make the thing worse and eventually you  may need to spend more time to rectify it. Here, you may use the 90/10 rule.


13. Think positive
When you think positive, everything will turn out more rosy and pleasant. You \will rest assure  that you will  have much higher productivity. If your health and attitude and body and mind are all aligned in the right way, there’s nothing else for you to do but to feel energized. It’s the natural “side-effect” of a healthy life– it just comes with the territory.


14. Work in groups
It is undeniable that everyone of us has his own talent and skill. By using the strength of each and every member of the group, it will yield more.


15. Find your own work rhythm.
A lot of creative work can be done at odd times and places. So, schedule your work accordingly to your own work rhythm


The great Canadian physician Sir William Osler; a teacher, medical writer and medical practitioner, set aside only 15 minutes every night to compile an annotated bibliography of his huge library. His ambitious Bibliotheca Osleriana contained 7787 entries when he died.


The above example is a good illustration that when our “qi” (energy) is at optimal levels and flowing smoothly, we’re ready to take on the world- spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically


16. Always look out for more efficient and effective way of doing things
 Constantly keep your mind open especially when you are doing certain activities which involves lots of repetition . In such instance, keep on asking yourself is there any other way to get the thing done  more efficiently and effectively.  




I would love to hear your comments (both good and bad).  If you have any feedback after reading the article, please forward them either through comment or email them to: jamesoh2003@yahoo.co.uk.


In addition, I would love to hear any other tips from your own personal experience you'd like to share. 


Wishing you health and happiness,


James Oh

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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Please come and read the news below

To all loving readers and visitors,


Just take a few minutes and its worth reading.....whether you believe it or not..... 

Pls. read the contents below & share with your friends

Three types of asparagus on a shop display, with white asparagus at the back and green asparagus in the middle. The plant at the front is Ornithogalum pyrenaicum , is commonly called wild asparagus,

Several years ago, I had a man seeking asparagus for a friend who had cancer. He gave me a photocopied copy of an article,entitled,
`Asparagus for cancer ' printed in Cancer News Journal, December 1979.

I will share it here, just as it was shared with me: 'I am a biochemist,and have specialized in the relation of diet to health for over 50 years.

Several years ago, I learned of the discovery of Richard R.Vensal, D.D.S. that asparagus might cure cancer. Since then, I have worked with him on his project.. We have accumulated a number of favourable case histories.
Here are a few examples:


Case No. 1,

A man with an almost hopeless case of Hodgkin's disease (cancer of the lymph glands) who was completely incapacitated.. Within 1 year of starting the asparagus therapy, his doctors were unable to detect any signs of cancer, and he was back on a schedule of strenuous exercise. 

Case No. 2,
A successful businessman 68 years old who suffered from cancer of the bladder for 16 years. After years of medical treatments,including radiation without improvement, he went on asparagus. Within 3 months, examinations revealed that his bladder tumor had disappeared and that his kidneys were normal.

Case No. 3,

A man who had lung cancer. On March 5th 1971, he was put on the operating table where they found lung cancer so widely spread that it was inoperable. The surgeon sewed him up and declared his case hopeless. On April 5th he heard about the asparagus therapy and immediately started taking it. By August, x-ray pictures revealed that all signs of the cancer had disappeared. He is back at his regular business routine. *

*Case No. 4,

A woman who was troubled for a number of years with skin cancer. She finally developed different skin cancers which were diagnosed by asking specialist as advanced. Within 3 months after starting on asparagus, her skin specialist said that her skin looked fine and nomore skin lesions. This woman reported that the asparagus therapy also cured her kidney disease, which started in 1949. She had over 10 operations for kidney stones, and was receiving government disability payments for an inoperable, terminal, kidney condition. She attributes the cure of this kidney trouble entirely to the asparagus.


I was not surprised at this result, as `The elements of Materia Medica', edited in 1854 by a Professor at the University of Pennsylvania , stated that asparagus was used as a popular remedy for kidney stones. He even referred to experiments, in 1739, on the power of asparagus in dissolving stones.

We would have other case histories but the medical establishment has interfered with our obtaining some of the records. I am therefore appealing to readers to spread this good news and help us to gather a large number of case histories that will overwhelm the medical skeptics about this unbelievably simple and natural remedy. For the treatment, asparagus should be cooked before using, and therefore canned asparagus is just as good as fresh.

I have corresponded with the two leading canners of asparagus, Giant Giant and Stokely, and I am satisfied that these brands contain no pesticides or preservatives.


* * PROCEDURE:
1) Place the cooked asparagus in a blender and liquefy to make a puree, and store in the refrigerator.

2) Give the patient 4 full tablespoons twice daily, morning and evening.


Patients usually show some improvement in from 2-4 weeks. It can be diluted with water and used as a cold or hot drink. This suggested dosage is based on present experience, but certainly larger amounts can do no harm and may be needed in some cases.

As a biochemist I am convinced of the old saying that `what cures can prevent'. Based on this theory, my wife and I have been using asparagus puree as a beverage with our meals. We take 2 tablespoons diluted in water to suit our taste with breakfast and with dinner. I take mine hot and my wife prefers hers cold.

For years we have made it a practice to have blood surveys taken as part of our regular checkups.

The last blood survey, taken by a medical doctor who specializes in the nutritional approach to health, showed substantial improvements in all categories over the last one, and we can attribute these improvements to nothing but the asparagus drink...

As a biochemist, I have made an extensive study of all aspects of cancer, and all of the proposed cures. As a result, I am convinced that asparagus fits in better with the latest theories about cancer. Asparagus contains a good supply of protein called histones, which are believed to be active in controlling cell growth. For that reason, I believe asparagus can be said to contain a substance that I call cell growth normalizer. That accounts for its action on cancer and inacting as a general body tonic. In any event, regardless of theory, asparagus used as we suggest, is a harmless substance.

The FDA cannot prevent you from using it and it may do you much good.. It has been reported by the US National Cancer Institute, that asparagus is the highest tested food containing glutathione, which is considered one of the body's most potent anticarcinogens and antioxidants.


Please spread the news...


...the most unselfish act one can ever do is paying forward all the kindness one has received even to the most undeserved person *

All the very best 

James Oh

Monday, October 19, 2009

Value relationship

Happy day to everyone of you,


Let us ponder the phrase below


"Apologizing does not mean that you are wrong and the other one is right...

It simply means that you value the relationship much more than your
ego ..."

Do you agree with the above statement? If not, please voice out your view. Thank you in advance.


Thanks for your time and look forward to hearing from you,


James Oh

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Law of the Garbage Truck

To all my loving readers and visitors,

I am so excited to share this great story with you and I am certain that you will love it.





One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport.


We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us.
 

My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly.

So I asked, *'Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!'


This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call,  'The Law of the Garbage Truck.'*

He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around  full  of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.


As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally.

Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so ... Love the people who treat you right. *


Pray for the ones who don't*. *


Life** is ten percent what you **make it** and ninety percent how you**take it!*


Have a blessed, garbage-free day!


Remember don't show your temper when people dump the garbage on you.


Smile back and pity these people who do not know what they are doing.


Please share this with your friends so that they know how to handle when other people dump garbage at them. Thank you in advance for helping them.


James Oh






Thursday, October 15, 2009

HOW TO REMOVE YOUR LIMITING BELIEF

Happy day to all my loving readers and visitors,






What is limiting belief? The beliefs that you have implanted over time and limit / restrict you from living the life of your dreams and diminish your chance to succeed. In short, your limiting belief systems that stop fulfilment from occurring.


In this article I am going to share with you some useful tips that can help you overcome your limiting beliefs.


1. HOW TO BE SET FREE


You must not be a captive of your limiting beliefs. To overcome this, you need to open your mind and willingly listen to new ideas so that those existing beliefs can be kept in check. By doing so, you will be able to identify these limiting beliefs one by one and replace them with the unlimited beliefs. Eventually you will set yourself free from all these limiting beliefs.


2 HAVE FAITH


This unlimited belief need to be rooted deeply inside your heart so as to resist whatsoever resistance along your journey. You must believe in it with TOTAL CONVICTION. In short, you have control of yourself regardless of the circumstances you are in. This is the driving force behind any great success throughout mankind's history.


3. DEVELOP YOUR PASSION


Life is full of purposes and to live to its fullest, you need to do what you love. Search for your passion and let your dream take you through your journey. Enjoy the ride and stay focus on your goals. Then you will be surprised as how it will not only assist you to overcome your limiting beliefs, but also help you to create a new course of beliefs that will support you in your journey to success. Being clear about what you want to do with your life helps you to eliminate your limiting beliefs. Once you have a passion for something, your beliefs can do nothing except supporting your journey. I was an extremely shy and introvert person. But when I discovered my passion and became clear about my life purpose, I began to write articles in my blog with an intention of helping people worldwide to achieve their goals. Now, you can see clearly that my passion is more overwhelms my limiting belief so that I can walk through my journey with ease.


4. USE YOUR IMAGINATION TO FAN DESIRE


You need more than daydreams and wishful wishes, but also intense and lasting burning desire to work towards your unlimited beliefs. No one can create them for you. You have to develop them yourself constantly and also have faith that you are capable of achieving them. As such, you can see that clarity of purpose and intensity of desire are the chief ingredients of the magic formula.


5 AFFIRM, REINFORCE YOUR NEW BELIEF


Put down your own affirmations in writing. By doing so, you tend to have a much clearer view of your pre-set goal. It will further assist you to visualize and work towards your goals constantly. This is because affirmations invoke strong emotions within you that overwhelms your limiting belief and replaces it with new beliefs. Hence, it reinforces your new beliefs.


6. START WITH SMALL AND ACHIEVABLE GOAL


This is also a smart move to begin. The small achievement will reinforce your new belief. It functions like muscle. It builds strength from exercise thereby raising your mind's boundaries so as to build up your confidence. One way is to provoke your existing mind to filter all the negative elements


7. STAY FOCUS


You need to stay focus on your goal and do not let the circumstance to divert you from your goal. You must stay in control. To do so, you must realize that the power of concentration as well illustrated by  the magnified glass whereby it is used to sunlight to cause the heating effect on the piece of paper underneath it. Similarly, you need to focus as the benefits that it will bring.


8. STAY WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE


Be aware that negative people can divert your energy and vitality. Therefore it is wiser to stay with positive and successful people who can give you the necessary support and appropriate advice as well as new ideas that can help you to broaden your mind boundaries.


9. POSITIVE WORDS, ACTION AND APPROACH


By consistently using positive words, action and approach, it will attract more lasting positive elements and energy that you need to overcome your limiting beliefs. By affirming and reaffirming, you will not only constantly boost up your confidence, but also assist you toward achieving the highest possible level of unlimited beliefs.




Trust that the above tips will help you to eliminate your limited beliefs and set you on a path to ever lasting happiness and success.


Please feel free to add to the above list should you have other effective proven measures. Thank you in advance for your kind participation.



James Oh

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Wednesday, October 14, 2009

25 health benefits of Lemons






Very happy day to all my dearest friends,


Do you know that Lemon, one of the super fruits, which can bring you a myriad health and cosmetic benefits ? I shall discuss it in details shortly.


There are a few persons for whom it is an allergen, so make sure you are not allergic to this natural product, before you start enjoying the many benefits.


1. Lemon being a citrus fruit, fights against infection. It helps in production of White Blood Cells and antibodies in blood which attacks the invading microorganism and prevents infection.


2. Lemon is an antioxidant which deactivates the free radicals preventing many dangerous diseases like stroke, cardiovascular diseases and cancers.


3. Lemon lowers blood pressure and increases the levels of HDL (good cholesterol).


4. Lemon is found to be anti-carcinogenic which lower the rates of colon, prostate,and breast cancer. They prevent faulty metabolism in the cell, which can predispose a cell to becoming carcinogenic. Also blocks the formation of nitrosamines in the gut.


5. Lemon juice is said to give a glow to the skin.


6. A few drops of lemon juice in hot water are believed to clear the digestive system and purify liver as well.


7. The skin of lemon dried under the sun and then ground to make powder can be applied to the hair for a few minutes before bath which relieves head ache and
cools the body.


8. Applying lemon juice to acne dries the existing ones and prevents from getting more.


9. Lemon juice acts as a natural hair lightener and skin bleach which reduces the pigment melanin and prevents the risk of chemical allergic reactions which is common with hair dyes and bleaches.


10. Lemon juice is given to relieve gingivitis, stomatitis, and inflammation of the tongue.


11. Lemon juice is given to prevent common cold.


12. Lemon juice is given to prevent or treat urinary tract infection and gonorrhea.


13. Lemon juice is applied to the sites of bites and stings of certain insects to relieve its poison and pain.


14. Lemon juice relieves colic pain and gastric problems.


15. Lemon juice soothes the dry skin when applied with little glycerin.


16. Lemon juice used for marinating seafood or meat kills bacteria and other organisms present in them, thereby prevents many gastro-intestinal tract infections.
17. Lemon juice with a pinch of salt (warm) every morning lowers cholesterol levels and brings down your weight.


18. Lemon juice is the best drink to prevent dehydration and shock in case of diarrhea.


19. Lemon juice can also be used as a mouthwash. It removes plaque, whitens the teeth and strengthens the enamel.


20. A table spoon of thick lemon syrup everyday relieves asthma.


21. Lemon juice relieves chilblains and itchy skin.


22. Gargling lemon juice relieves throat infection and also used as a treatment for
diphtheria.


23. Lemon juice is an excellent treatment for dandruff and greasy hair.


24.. Lemon applied over the face removes wrinkles and keeps you young.


25. Lemon juice helps to prevent and cure osteoarthritis.


Thanks for your time and hope to seeing you again,


James Oh

Monday, October 12, 2009

A Lovely Message

Very happy day to everyone,

I can't find anything better than sharing the story below with you:-


A Lovely Message

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.  


The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.  


When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.




QUESTIONS
:

1.  What were the five words ?
2.  What is the implication of this story?



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ANSWER :

The husband just said,
  "I am with you, Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.  

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

Take off all your envies, jealousies,unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears
. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you Think.

MORAL OF THE STORY

This story is really worth reading. .....
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something





 Trust you have also learn a good lesson here. As such, please don't forget to pass this blog to others who intend to pursuing health and happiness.
Have a lovely day,

James Oh

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

STEPS TO DEVELOP SOUND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT SKILLS

To all my dearest visitors and readers,


Hope you find this article well and useful.


It is a popular belief that you need to stress your dollars only when the economy is in a crisis. However, the truth is that we need to embed financial management skills in our personal lives regardless of the state of the economic affairs. There is no way that you can avoid from dealing with money in life. As such, we need to realize and acknowledge the importance of this matter in our lives.


IN this article, I have listed some of the steps to develop sound financial management skills:-


1. ENSURE FINANCE IS AT THE HEART OF DEVELOPING YOUR VISION AND STRATEGY


Without such commitment, you will not only run the risk of flawed planning and poor decision making, but also fail to embed sound financial principles into the management of your daily life as a whole. Do not worry about making mistake as long as you learn from it. Always learn from the master who have a proven track record. Keep on trying out until you truly apprehend its implications in each different scenarios. Here, repetition is the key of mastery.


2. START NOW!


It is never too late to begin. Act now to kick-start good financial management in your life. No matter what the current level of your financial management skills, there tend to be potential - almost certainly huge potential - to improve.  You must want good financial management to be at your heart, be committed to it and be consistent in promoting and supporting its application. It takes time to build an empire, so do financial management skills. If you understand the compound interest implication, then you will know the snowball effect on money. Life passes quickly and you might need extra money for the unexpected and the long term. In light of today’s global financial crisis with its high rate of inflation, managing your money effectively has become exceptionally important than before.


3. REINFORCE THE BEHAVIOR THAT YOU WANT REPEATED


We must acknowledge and realize the fact that most of stuff we bought is based on emotion rather than rationale. As such, you must not be trapped into it so frequently that it becomes part of our habits. In order to overcome it, you must ask yourself seriously whether you really need it before buying. You must consistently put it into practice and through such repeated positive reinforcement, you will be amazed at its spectacular result.




4. DO NOT CONSTRUE IT WITH CUTTING BACK
Learning to acquire sound financial management skills also includes learning when you can make cutbacks. Before that, you need to scrutinize your list of monthly expenses and cut back those expenses which you do not need. Thus, that unspent sum of money may either go to your saving accounts or to reduce your loan. As a result, you will have more money to spend in the long term. Alternatively, you may use that saved amount of money to spend on higher quality product, which in term cost you less in the long run.


5. CONSOLIDATE YOUR LOANS


Debts can kill unless you can manage them well. If you are overwhelmed by debt, then consolidation of your loans is most likely to be a feasible solution to you. If you have a good credit rating and negotiation power, you will most likely be able to obtain a more attractive and reasonable interest rate from lenders. In this case, you must make sure that the loan with the lowest rate of interest be utilized first. To reap its fullest benefit, you must also match your payment schedule with your cash inflow. Ultimately, it will leave you with more money at the end of the month to either enjoy a good lifestyle or reduce your other debts.


6. TAXES : KNOWLEDGE IS POWER.


Pay attention to new tax laws. They are like a moving target - changing annually.  Make full use of the knowledge to your maximum advantage for instance you make sure that you claim all deductions that you are entitled. Proper tax planning also will help you to reduce your tax liability.


7.   SAVING - THE BEST INTENTION


It is always the best practice that we set a certain amount to our saving accounts. In this case, you are more likely to live within your budget while ensuring that a portion of your income is safely held in savings. You never know when some extra cash will come in handy.




8. KEEP IT FRESH AND CURRENT


This means regularly reviewing the skills to keep abreast so as fulfill tomorrow's needs. It means acquiring new ideas to use the present resources to improve your wealth.


9. KEEP IT SIMPLE


The key to success is being able to get things done. Its role and principles must be easily understood and the benefits clearly defined. Finance needs to be seen as part of your daily solution and not part of your problem.


So, practice the steps that I have given you and, not only will you gradually make progress. Ultimately you will be able to face the economic crisis with an increasing confidence. 


Please feel free to pass this blog to your friends who intend to pursuing sound financial management skills.


I WILL BE AWAY FOR A BREAK FROM OCT 9 -11 AND RESUME WORKING FROM OCT 12, 2009. 


Wishing you success,


James Oh

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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE!

Happy day to you,

This is another interesting story which you will find it useful and beneficial.

A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert - During some point of the Journey they had an Argument, and one friend slapped the other one In the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE .

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone:

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.


The friend who had slapped
and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?" The other friend replied "When someone hurts us we should write it down
in sand where winds of
forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE!

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then
an entire life to forget them.

Take the time to live!
Do not value the things - WHAT you have in life. Value WHO you have in your life!

" Happiness is not something you find, it's something you create…"

'Life Is Too Short To Waste Time Hating Anyone'

Now, you have read the story. It is your turn to pass off this blog to others who are pursuing health and happiness.

Seeing you again and have a lovely day,


James Oh

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Love is Complete Trust and Faithfulness

Happy day to all of you,


Today I am going to share with you a small story, rich in content, which I believe that you will find it beneficial and interesting.


This Story begins
A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.
The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.


That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.
 
Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

Do not keep it to ourselves, share it with others. Alternatively, you may pass off this blog to others who are pursuing  for health and happiness,

Seeing you again and have a lovely day,

James

Saturday, October 3, 2009

HOW TO RETIRE GRACEFULLY

Happy day to all my readers and visitors,


Trust you find this article well and beneficial to you.




It is everyone's dream to retire gracefully. The question is should we do so as to achieve it. Why so many people fail to achieve it? Is it very difficult to achieve it?

In this article, I am going to give you some insight as how to work towards it. Which are the core areas you should address before you decide to retire. Here, I am going to discuss these issues in detail so as you can begin to prepare them in advance before your golden age.

1. Your children must be financially independent.

Unless you are financially sound, you can not retire gracefully should your children be still dependent on you. Alternatively, you must be able to generate sufficient and adequate passive income to be able to support your lifestyle and your dependents.

2. You have zero debts

Debts can kill unless you can manage them well. If you are a financial wizard and are able to use the debts to generate income which exceeds the cost of borrowing and at the same time be able to generate cash inflow more than sufficient to settle its due installment. Otherwise, the penalty and the late interest payment will add to your outstanding debts. Should you be unable to pay the installment and interest, the loan may be recalled. Thus, you have to settle the whole sum. To avoid putting yourself in this predicament, be sure to settle all your debts before you retire.

3. You have enough savings to support your lifestyle for the rest of your life

In most cases, you may not have much income after you retire, unless you have passive income. As such, you must have adequate amount of savings that can support your lifestyle for the rest of your life. Here, you must also ensure that your savings take into account of rate of inflation. You are encouraged to have a few safety plans to cater for other contingencies.

4.  Know exactly what you can do during your retirement.

Some people are not able to cope well with the sudden change in their life patterns.  Retirement is not as simple as you think. Some may think that they will have the time to travel and see the world. However, most of them can do it initially, but later they may run out of ideas.

For those who enjoy sport, they might think that it is a golden opportunity for them to play their favorite game. However, most of them may no longer be fit enough or they may have difficulty to find their buddies to play with.

Buddies are also needed for other games such as mahjong, badminton, trekking and karaoke.Most of them have difficulty finding those they can click to and share their favorite games. Playing/singing alone is not fun. Thus you must form your own sports/games groups BEFORE you retire. You need to identify your buddies, play with them and discover whether they can click with you.

For the less sporty, reading may sound like a great idea, but you must truly enjoy it.. Otherwise, you may find it boring after a few pages and end up napping most of the time! Even if you have the hobby right now, you may not find it enjoyable later on.

You still need to stay active during your retirement period. Bear in mind the fact that most of our routine work activities are either planned or dictated by others. It will be entirely a different ball game. When you retire, you need to establish your own routine activities.

A good routine that can keep your body, mind and spirit sharpen are as follows:

a) Physical sport - you need to stay healthy to enjoy your retirement. If you are the non-sporty type, you should at least try to clean your home yourself without mechanical aids. Dancing and baby sitting are other good alternatives.

b) Mind stimulating activity - you need to stimulate your mind to stay active. However, mind stimulating activities are hard to identify. To acquire them successfully, you will not only need the will of doing something useful with the rest of your life, but also a mindset change and the discipline to carry it through.

c) Social activity - try you best to choose activities involving lots of friends/neighbours. Unless you prefer to be alone, you need friends more than ever as you get older. They may give you moral and spiritual support, if you are in need.

d) Community services activities - it is noble for you to give back to the society to show your appreciation of  what you have been benefiting from throughout your life, so as to leave some kind of legacy.

After retiring, you still need to maintain a balance between amusing yourself and your family members. Do capitalize your spare time with opportunities that will come your way like responding to an unexpected request to do a job or to take advantage of cheap fares to visit an exhibitions/places..

You may turn to your one-off activities list when you are bored at times, despite having a busy routine.  These include anniversaries, trips, visits friends and relatives abroad, re-doing your home, attending conferences (related to your hobbies), acquiring a new set of expertise.

Retirement is a serious business. Never take it lightly. If you can afford to retire and want to, prepare to live life to the fullest. You need to be fit to enjoy it - therefore get into shape now. You do not want to get up daily and wonder what to do, therefore identify your set of routine activities now and try them out to confirm that they are the activities that you will be looking forward to doing. Your one-off activities list of "rewards" or "projects" or "challenges" is needed to help you break away from the routine, thereby make life worth living.

Start listing what you fancy and refine it as you chug along in your retirement. You will have so much fun; that you wish you have retired since you turned 21!

Wishing you health and happiness,



James Oh

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Distinguish USED and LOVED clearly

Happy day to all of you,


I am so excited to share this short story with all of you. Trust it will give a great significant benefits to you.


USED vs LOVED

While a man was polishing his new car, his four year old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers
due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions......
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.

The next day that man committed suicide. . .

Anger and Love have no limits;

choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life & remember this:
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is
that people are used while things are loved.

Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:

Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Please feel free to pass off this blog to your friends who are pursuing health and happiness.
Thanks for your time and kindly forward your feedback either via comment or email. Thank you in advance.

Stay tuned and seeing you again.

Wishing you health and happiness,

James Oh







Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Count Your Blessings

Dear my loving readers and visitors,


Trust you will find this article well. See what Typhoon Morakot can done for us. So, how blessed are you not been affected by it.


After forming as a tropical depression over the Pacific Ocean about 1,000 km east of the Philippines on August 2nd, Typhoon Morakot built in power and moved quickly west. Over the past several days, the storm has passed over the Philippines, Taiwan and Mainland China, causing hundreds of millions of dollars in damage due to high winds, flooding and mudslides. Southeast China evacuated nearly 1 million people ahead of the storm, after Morakot broke many records in Taiwan, dumping a total of 2.5 meters (100 inches) of rain on the island. At least 40 people are known to have died so far, but hundreds remain missing - many from one village in Taiwan, reportedly engulfed by a mudslide during the storm.


A woman watches waves triggered by Typhoon Morakot batter the shore in Wenling, Zhejiang Province August 7, 2009.



Two villagers walk in a flooded village in Cangnan county, eastern China Sunday Aug. 9, 2009.



Flood waters brought by Typhoon Morakot submerge a house in Chiatung, Pingtung county, in southern Taiwan, on August 9, 2009.



Residents gather to remove a fallen tree blocking a road in Changle, in southeast China's Fujian province on August 8, 2009 as Typhoon
Morakot hits mainland China.




An elderly man is carried from a helicopter to a high school in Chishan, in Taiwan's Kaohsiung county on August 10, 2009 after being airlifted from the
southern village of Shiao Lin.



Water flows past a severely eroded embankment near a damaged bridge that previously linked Pingtung and Kaohsiung, in southern Taiwan on August 9, 2009.

 


A man stands on a roof as he awaits rescue in heavy flooding in Taimali, south-eastern Taiwan's Taitung county on August 8, 2009 during Typhoon Morakot.



A hotel building leans before falling in a heavily flooded river after Typhoon Morakot hit Taitung county, Taiwan, Sunday, Aug. 9, 2009. The six-story hotel collapsed
and plunged into the river Sunday morning after floodwaters eroded its base - all 300 people in the hotel had been evacuated and uninjured, officials said.

 



Paramilitary policemen stand on a pile of sandbags at a section of Yangjia Stream of Xiapu county in Ningde, Fujian province August 10, 2009.



A flooded area of Cangnan county of Wenzhou, Zhejiang province, China after Typhoon Morakot passed by, on August 10, 2009.




A resident pulls a box of groceries across a flooded street after Typhoon Morakot hit parts of Zhejiang province in China on August 10, 2009.



A resident pulls a makeshift raft to transport two girls across a flooded street after Typhoon Morakot struck Cangnan county, in China's Zhejiang province,
August 10, 2009.



A woman, taking shelter from Typhoon Morakot, rests in a temporary evacuation centre in Chiatung, in southern Taiwan's Pingtung county on August 9, 2009.




Rescuers are seen before a Taoist temple inundated in floodwaters brought by Typhoon Morakot in Chiatung, southern Taiwan, on August 9, 2009.



A girl is carried out from mudslide caused by Typhoon Morakot in Chiashien, Kaohsiung county, in southern Taiwan, on August 10, 2009.




A massive landslide is seen across a mountain road in Pingtung county, southern Taiwan, Monday, Aug. 10, 2009.




A storm-damaged bridge in Chiashien, southern Taiwan's Kaohsiung county, seen on August 10, 2009.




Rescuers try to reach a man who is stranded by floods as Typhoon Morakot approaches in Shanghai, China on August 9, 2009.



A Philippine Coastguard rescuer helps a colleague while crossing a flooded area with strong current in Botolan town in northern Philippines August 7, 2009.
The town of Botolan was submerged in floodwaters on Friday after a dike collapsed at the height of Typhoon Morakot.



Evacuees sit on top of a military vehicle as rescuers search the flooded area for people after rains brought by Typhoon Morakot inundated the area in
Chiatung, Pingtung county, in southern Taiwan, on August 9, 2009.


 
Residents make their way across a flooded street on a makeshift raft after Typhoon Morakot hit Cangnan county of Wenzhou, Zhejiang province, China on
August 10, 2009.



An aerial view of flooding caused by Typhoon Morakot in Chiatung, Taiwan.




A distraught woman waits for word of her missing father from Shiao Lin village, which was covered in a landslide from Typhoon Morakot in Kaohsiung
county, southern Taiwan, at a rescue landing zone on Monday, Aug. 10, 2009.



People row a dragon boat to commute through a flooded area in Cangnan county, in east China's Zhejiang province, Monday Aug. 10, 2009.




A railroad bridge damaged by Typhoon Morakot is seen in Taitung, eastern Taiwan August 8, 2009.



Rescuers try to pull a stranded car out of floodwater in Wenzhou, Zhejiang province, China on August 9, 2009.



Driftwood and debris fills Fugang Harbor after Typhoon Morakot hit Taitung county, eastern Taiwan, Sunday, Aug. 9, 2009.




A man carries a baby as a family is rescued from flooding brought by Typhoon Morakot in Chiatung, Pingtung county, in southern Taiwan, on August 9, 2009.




Paramilitary policemen pilot a motorboat through a flooded village in Cangnan county, eastern China Sunday Aug. 9, 2009.




A man trapped by floods gestures at rescuers delivering food and drinking water after Typhoon Morakot hit Pingtung county, southern Taiwan August 9, 2009.



A collapsed apartment block lies on a river bed in Taimali, in southeast Taiwan's Taitung county on August 10, 2009.



A worker sits behind a pile of sandbags as pumps empty floodwater from a workshop after Typhoon Morakot hit Fuzhou, Fujian province August 9, 2009.




Local residents try to catch fish at a flooded fish pond as Typhoon Morakot approaches in Xiapu county of Ningde, Fujian province, China on August 9, 2009.



A man walks on sandbags used to patch a damaged dike holding back a rising river in a flooded village in Cangnan county, eastern China Sunday
Aug. 9, 2009.


So, count our blessings and stay focus on Him. Do not let the surrounding events to sidetrack your walk, but move on with our lives.  

James Oh



Monday, September 28, 2009

Quick Glance at What your body need

Very happy day all my loving readers and visitors,

Trust you will find this article well and I'm so excited to share with you a simple yet powerful diagram to serve as a quick guide for your good health.


To enlarge the diagram, please click at the diagram below.





Please feel free to pass off this blog to your friends who are pursuing health and happiness.

Wishing you health and happiness

James Oh