Dear sir/madam,
We are all fully aware that the world is facing a huge financial crisis now. It started from the US and outbreak to almost every part of the world. Many people get laid off. Many business from the SMEs to the global business are struggling for surviving. These bad news is just begun and we expect to see the real things this year.
We, at this blog, would like to invite you to visit this blog more frequently so as to assist you in every area or at least to make you feel relieve and positive enough to fight for tomorrow. Under the situation that nothing much you can do, moving things around will help you in many ways. So, we are convinced that to strengthen your mind and soul is the way/solution to make you stronger to overcome this challenges. By doing so, you will be lifted up at all times. You may need to use the formula of 90/10 and response to it and not react to it.
We strongly believe that this blog may predict or help you at:
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* Enhance Money
* Enhance Health
* Enhance Love, Romance, Marriage
* Baby birth date selection
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* Illness Solution
* and more...
Please do not hesitate to contact us should you need further clarification.
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Friday, February 20, 2009
Thursday, February 19, 2009
FEARS
FEAR is something that can make you feel unpleasant, be it REAL or PERCEIVED.
FEAR is good and also bad to individual. You must fully understand it, deal with it and overcome it, so that you can use it for your good.
Fear may empower you from doing something that may be harmful to you, such as smoking or drinking. We called the healthy fear.
Similarly, it may dis-empowering you from doing something good for you, such as public speaking. We termed it as unhealthy fear.
Now, you can see that FEAR itself neither absolutely good nor absolutely bad to you. It is very much depend on how the individual deal and make use of it. Here, it is absolute right to say that it serves as two-edge sword.
It can either motivate you to achieve something your desired goal provided you use it correctly and for your advantage. Conversely, it may act as barrier stopping you from progressing towards your goal. Therefore, you must know precisely how to use it for your benefit.
There is not an absolute good or absolute bad and very much depend on the individual as how you manage with it. We are talking something relatively good or bad. It does not mean anything to you if really understand the true meaning of it.
It will bring benefit to you if you use it wisely. Similarly, it may bring disaster to you if you use it unwisely.
Therefore, it must be truly understood and assessed it correctly. No matter what you, most often than not, deal with it. You must always in control of it and do not let it control you. Saying is easy and doing is totally different, if you truly understand what I mean.
To deal and overcome it, you must be able to direct and redirect your mind / perception and stay control of yourself, focus on the right solution rather problem so that it can assist you to overcome it.
In this case, it is a good practice that you always focus on your goal rather than problem. Always stay focus on your pre-set objective/goal and never let your focus swing to other non pertinent issue such as the environment, or the audience or anything other than your objective/goal.
Always remember that our Lord has set you free and you can do everything through Him, who strengthen you. Philippians 4:13.
Trust the above explanation have convinced you now and we can see you online again.
FEAR is good and also bad to individual. You must fully understand it, deal with it and overcome it, so that you can use it for your good.
Fear may empower you from doing something that may be harmful to you, such as smoking or drinking. We called the healthy fear.
Similarly, it may dis-empowering you from doing something good for you, such as public speaking. We termed it as unhealthy fear.
Now, you can see that FEAR itself neither absolutely good nor absolutely bad to you. It is very much depend on how the individual deal and make use of it. Here, it is absolute right to say that it serves as two-edge sword.
It can either motivate you to achieve something your desired goal provided you use it correctly and for your advantage. Conversely, it may act as barrier stopping you from progressing towards your goal. Therefore, you must know precisely how to use it for your benefit.
There is not an absolute good or absolute bad and very much depend on the individual as how you manage with it. We are talking something relatively good or bad. It does not mean anything to you if really understand the true meaning of it.
It will bring benefit to you if you use it wisely. Similarly, it may bring disaster to you if you use it unwisely.
Therefore, it must be truly understood and assessed it correctly. No matter what you, most often than not, deal with it. You must always in control of it and do not let it control you. Saying is easy and doing is totally different, if you truly understand what I mean.
To deal and overcome it, you must be able to direct and redirect your mind / perception and stay control of yourself, focus on the right solution rather problem so that it can assist you to overcome it.
In this case, it is a good practice that you always focus on your goal rather than problem. Always stay focus on your pre-set objective/goal and never let your focus swing to other non pertinent issue such as the environment, or the audience or anything other than your objective/goal.
Always remember that our Lord has set you free and you can do everything through Him, who strengthen you. Philippians 4:13.
Trust the above explanation have convinced you now and we can see you online again.
FRIEND IS A GIFT
A friend is somebody
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are...
Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you without any words,
Stands by you when nothing goes right.
And willingly talks over problems with you
Till they somehow just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors
or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift!
To your heart and spirit
that shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are...
Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.
A friend understands you without any words,
Stands by you when nothing goes right.
And willingly talks over problems with you
Till they somehow just vanish from sight.
And whether you're neighbors
or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift!
To your heart and spirit
that shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!
I asked God
I asked God to take away my pain.
God said, No
- It is not for me to take away,
but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No
- Her spirit was whole,
her body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No
- Patience is a by-product of tribulations;
it isn't granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No
- I give you blessings.
Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No
- Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares
and brings you closer to me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No
- You must grow on your own,
but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No
- I will give you life
so that you may enjoy all things.
I ask God to help me LOVE others,
as much as he loves me.
God said...
Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.
YOU MAY NOT LIKE TO LISTEN,
BUT GOD SAYS NO
FOR YOUR BENEFIT
HE SHOWS THAT HE CARES FOR YOU
IT IS NO EASY FOR HIM TO SAY NO
BECAUSE HE IS TRULY CARE ABOUT YOU
BY SAYING NO FOR YOUR GOOD
SO TRUST HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY AND LET HIM REVEAL THE TRUTH TO YOU.
WALK BY FAITH, AND NOT BY SIGHT
JAMES
God said, No
- It is not for me to take away,
but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No
- Her spirit was whole,
her body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No
- Patience is a by-product of tribulations;
it isn't granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No
- I give you blessings.
Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No
- Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares
and brings you closer to me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No
- You must grow on your own,
but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No
- I will give you life
so that you may enjoy all things.
I ask God to help me LOVE others,
as much as he loves me.
God said...
Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.
YOU MAY NOT LIKE TO LISTEN,
BUT GOD SAYS NO
FOR YOUR BENEFIT
HE SHOWS THAT HE CARES FOR YOU
IT IS NO EASY FOR HIM TO SAY NO
BECAUSE HE IS TRULY CARE ABOUT YOU
BY SAYING NO FOR YOUR GOOD
SO TRUST HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY AND LET HIM REVEAL THE TRUTH TO YOU.
WALK BY FAITH, AND NOT BY SIGHT
JAMES
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
SLOW DANCE
This is a poem written by a teenager with cancer.
She wants to see how many people get her poem.
It is quite the poem
Please pass it on.
This poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a New York Hospital.
It was sent by a medical doctor -
Make sure to read what is in the closing statement
AFTER THE POEM.
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the
fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift.....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
------------
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FORWARDED
E-MAILS ARE TRACKED TO OBTAIN THE TOTAL
COUNT.
Dear All:
PLEASE pass this mail on to everyone you know -
even to those you don't know! It is the request of a special girl who will soon
leave this world due to cancer.
This young girl has 6 months left to live, and as her dying wish, she wanted to send a letter telling everyone to live their life to the fullest, since she never will.
She'll never make it to prom, graduate from high school,
or get married and have a family of her own.
By you sending this to as many people as possible, you can give her and her family a
little hope, because with every name that this is sent to, The American
Cancer Society will donate 3 cents per name to her treatment and recovery
plan. One guy sent this to 500 people! So I know that we can at least send
it to 5 or 6. It's not even your money, just your time!
PLEASE PASS ON AS A LAST REQUEST.
Dr.
Dennis Shields, Professor
Department of Developmental and
Molecular
Biology
1300
Morris Park
Avenue
Bronx , New York
10461
She wants to see how many people get her poem.
It is quite the poem
Please pass it on.
This poem was written by a terminally ill young girl in a New York Hospital.
It was sent by a medical doctor -
Make sure to read what is in the closing statement
AFTER THE POEM.
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the
fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift.....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
------------
--------
FORWARDED
E-MAILS ARE TRACKED TO OBTAIN THE TOTAL
COUNT.
Dear All:
PLEASE pass this mail on to everyone you know -
even to those you don't know! It is the request of a special girl who will soon
leave this world due to cancer.
This young girl has 6 months left to live, and as her dying wish, she wanted to send a letter telling everyone to live their life to the fullest, since she never will.
She'll never make it to prom, graduate from high school,
or get married and have a family of her own.
By you sending this to as many people as possible, you can give her and her family a
little hope, because with every name that this is sent to, The American
Cancer Society will donate 3 cents per name to her treatment and recovery
plan. One guy sent this to 500 people! So I know that we can at least send
it to 5 or 6. It's not even your money, just your time!
PLEASE PASS ON AS A LAST REQUEST.
Dr.
Dennis Shields, Professor
Department of Developmental and
Molecular
Biology
1300
Morris Park
Avenue
Bronx , New York
10461
Every explanation or statement is never absolute right or absolute wrong. Therefore it is always subject to argument. The truth will never be surfaced and it is usually be subject to interpretation of the individual.
Whoever is wise and fear of God, will interpret accordingly based on his individual honest belief, without being tainted or influenced or suppressed by any other authority higher than him.
Hence, whether you say or don’t does not make any difference. It is because your statement, gesture, tone or behavior will suggest or reflect your true answer. For instance, if you provide an answer, the answer will raise more questions if the circumstances evidence or events may suggest otherwise. The answer may not be consistent or tally or reconcile or make sense to the event or hearers.
Under such situation, the speaker may either fool around the listeners/audiences or alternatively he foolish himself. Of course, the speaker may not agree with it, but he can’t lie to himself or God.
The great or wise man will be able to see the invisible. Let us pray hard and let God reveals the truth to us. Have faith in Him ; walk by faith and not by sight. His grace and blessings will make us have peace, joy, happiness and all blessings. You shall able to walk straight with Him, so long as you allow Him to guide you along.
Whoever is wise and fear of God, will interpret accordingly based on his individual honest belief, without being tainted or influenced or suppressed by any other authority higher than him.
Hence, whether you say or don’t does not make any difference. It is because your statement, gesture, tone or behavior will suggest or reflect your true answer. For instance, if you provide an answer, the answer will raise more questions if the circumstances evidence or events may suggest otherwise. The answer may not be consistent or tally or reconcile or make sense to the event or hearers.
Under such situation, the speaker may either fool around the listeners/audiences or alternatively he foolish himself. Of course, the speaker may not agree with it, but he can’t lie to himself or God.
The great or wise man will be able to see the invisible. Let us pray hard and let God reveals the truth to us. Have faith in Him ; walk by faith and not by sight. His grace and blessings will make us have peace, joy, happiness and all blessings. You shall able to walk straight with Him, so long as you allow Him to guide you along.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE OR CAN'T
Jessica has an American father and a Filipina mother.
Oxford and Cambridge should now remove the words CAN'T and IMPOSSIBLE from their dictionary
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Jessica Cox, 25, a girl born without arms, stands inside an aircraft. The girl from Tucson, Arizona got the Sport Pilot certificate lately and became the first pilot licensed to fly using only her feet.
Jessica Cox of Tucson was born without arms, but that has only stopped her from doing one thing: using the word "can't."
Her latest flight into the seemingly impossible is becoming the first pilot licensed to fly using only her feet.
With one foot manning the controls and the other delicately guiding the steering column, Cox, 25, soared to achieve a Sport Pilot certificate. Her certificate qualifies her to fly a light-sport aircraft to altitudes of 10,000 feet.
"She's a good pilot. She's rock solid," said Parrish Traweek, 42, the flying instructor at San Manuel's Ray Blair Airport.
Parrish Traweek runs PC Aircraft Maintenance and Flight Services and has trained many pilots, some of whom didn't come close to Cox's abilities.
"When she came up here driving a car," Traweek recalled, "I knew she'd have no problem flying a plane."
Doctors never learned why she was born without arms, but she figured out early on that she didn't want to use prosthetic devices.
Jessica Cox, 25, earned a license to fly airplanes on October 10, 2008. Jessica also has two black belts in Tae Kwan-Do, a college degree in Psychology, and a thriving career as a motivational speaker. What doesn't Jessica Cox have? Arms.A bilateral congenital limb deficiency doesn't stop Ms. Cox from achieving and surpassing her goals. From birth on, her feet became her hands. She can drive a car, type 25 words per minute, and fly an airplane using her feet, without any special adaptations. She is the first woman without arms to earn a license to fly.
"I highly encourage people with disabilities to consider flying," Cox said. "It helps reverse the stereotype that people with disabilities are powerless into the belief that they are powerful and capable of setting high goals and achieving them."
Jessica earned her Sport Pilot certificate after training with Able Flight, a North Carolina flight training company that specializes in helping people with disabilities learn to fly. Ms. Cox won an Able Flight scholarship and was able to train with instructor Parrish Traweek free of charge.
I am very inspire by the above real story, so do you.
God bless and have a wonderful day,
James
Oxford and Cambridge should now remove the words CAN'T and IMPOSSIBLE from their dictionary
Visit Us @ www.MumbaiHangOut.Org
Jessica Cox, 25, a girl born without arms, stands inside an aircraft. The girl from Tucson, Arizona got the Sport Pilot certificate lately and became the first pilot licensed to fly using only her feet.
Jessica Cox of Tucson was born without arms, but that has only stopped her from doing one thing: using the word "can't."
Her latest flight into the seemingly impossible is becoming the first pilot licensed to fly using only her feet.
With one foot manning the controls and the other delicately guiding the steering column, Cox, 25, soared to achieve a Sport Pilot certificate. Her certificate qualifies her to fly a light-sport aircraft to altitudes of 10,000 feet.
"She's a good pilot. She's rock solid," said Parrish Traweek, 42, the flying instructor at San Manuel's Ray Blair Airport.
Parrish Traweek runs PC Aircraft Maintenance and Flight Services and has trained many pilots, some of whom didn't come close to Cox's abilities.
"When she came up here driving a car," Traweek recalled, "I knew she'd have no problem flying a plane."
Doctors never learned why she was born without arms, but she figured out early on that she didn't want to use prosthetic devices.
Jessica Cox, 25, earned a license to fly airplanes on October 10, 2008. Jessica also has two black belts in Tae Kwan-Do, a college degree in Psychology, and a thriving career as a motivational speaker. What doesn't Jessica Cox have? Arms.A bilateral congenital limb deficiency doesn't stop Ms. Cox from achieving and surpassing her goals. From birth on, her feet became her hands. She can drive a car, type 25 words per minute, and fly an airplane using her feet, without any special adaptations. She is the first woman without arms to earn a license to fly.
"I highly encourage people with disabilities to consider flying," Cox said. "It helps reverse the stereotype that people with disabilities are powerless into the belief that they are powerful and capable of setting high goals and achieving them."
Jessica earned her Sport Pilot certificate after training with Able Flight, a North Carolina flight training company that specializes in helping people with disabilities learn to fly. Ms. Cox won an Able Flight scholarship and was able to train with instructor Parrish Traweek free of charge.
I am very inspire by the above real story, so do you.
God bless and have a wonderful day,
James
HAVE FAITH
Have Faith, My Friend
Whenever there's a problem,
Wherever there's despair
Just bow your head in prayer and know
That God will always be there.
When things look bleak and dreary,
When it seems that no one cares,
Have faith, my friend, in our Lord
And he will answer all your prayers.
I know sometimes it's hard,
Things don't seem to work out right,
But it truly is quite pointless
To kick or scream or fight.
When you really need an answer,
On HIM you can depend.
Only FAITH can move a mountain -
So, have FAITH in God, my friend!
Whenever there's a problem,
Wherever there's despair
Just bow your head in prayer and know
That God will always be there.
When things look bleak and dreary,
When it seems that no one cares,
Have faith, my friend, in our Lord
And he will answer all your prayers.
I know sometimes it's hard,
Things don't seem to work out right,
But it truly is quite pointless
To kick or scream or fight.
When you really need an answer,
On HIM you can depend.
Only FAITH can move a mountain -
So, have FAITH in God, my friend!
價值
最有價值的事物不是眼睛能夠看到的事物
最價有值的事物不是眼睛能夠看到的事物.....
在從紐約到波士頓的火車上，我發現我隔壁座的老先生是位盲人。
我的博士論 文指導 教授是位盲人，因此我和盲人談起話來，一點困難也沒有，
我還弄了一杯熱騰騰的咖啡給他喝。
當時正值洛杉磯種族暴動的時期，我們的談話因此就談到了種族偏見的問題。
老先生告訴我，他是美國南方人，從小就認為黑人低人一等，他家的佣人是黑人，
他在南方時從未和黑人一起吃過飯，也從未和黑人上過學。
到了北方念書，他有次被同學指定辦一次野餐會，他居然在請帖上註明
「我們保留拒絕任何人的權利」。
在南方，這句話就是
「我們不歡迎黑人」的意思，當時舉班譁然，他還被系主任抓去罵了一頓。
他說有時碰到黑人店員，付錢的時候，
總將錢放在櫃台上，讓黑人拿去，而不肯和他的手有任何接觸。
我笑著問他：
「那你當然不會和黑人結婚了！」
他大笑起來：
「我不和他們來往，如何會和黑人結婚？
說實話，我當時認為任何白人和黑人結婚都會使父母蒙辱。」
可是，他在波士頓唸研究所的時候，發生了車禍。
雖然大難不死，可是眼睛完全失明，什麼也看不見了。
他進入一家盲人重建院，在那裡學習如何用點字技巧，如何靠手杖走路等等。
慢慢地也終於能夠獨立生活了。
他說：「可是我最苦惱的是，我弄不清楚對方是不是黑人。」
我向我的心理輔導員談我的問題，他也儘量開導我，我非常信賴他，什麼都告訴他，將他看成自己的良師益友。
有一天，那位輔導員告訴我，他本人就是位黑人。
從此以後，我的偏見就慢慢完全消失了，我看不出人是白人，還是黑人。
對我來講，我只知道他是好人，還是壞人，至於膚色，對我已毫無意義了。
車子快到波士頓，老先生說：
「我失去了視力，也失去了偏見，多麼幸福的事！」
在月台上，老先生的太太已在等他，兩人親切地擁抱。
我赫然發現他太太是一位滿頭銀髮的黑人。
我這才發現，我視力良好，因此我偏見猶在，多麼不幸的事！
這讓我想起讀過的小王子...
小王子的狐狸送給小王子的秘密是:
『最有價值的事物不是眼睛能夠看到的事物,你必須要用你的心去感受.』
聽到,看到的,都不能盡信,
用心去感受,去思考.....
…。…。…。…。…。…。…。 …。…。…。…。…。…。
…。…。…。…。…。…。…。 …。…。…。…。…。…。
這是個好故事
等您〝老了〞才明白…
人到老年，會突然 〝醒悟〞：生命是有盡頭的。
這種感悟會使他們行動起來，去做一些他們很想做但以前總也沒有做的事情，有時，他們甚至用他們〝意料不到〞的方式。
人到老年，才真正〝認識自己〞：
也才真正屬於自己，並且用一種寬容、舒適和誠實的方式接受自己。
人到老年，方才〝明白〞：
東奔西走竭力想去改變的不是別的，恰是他們自己。幾十年的時光換來的不是別的，而是〝心靜如水。〞
人到老年，才真正 〝領悟〞到：
什麼叫百川歸海，什麼叫萬物歸一。
人到老年，開始明白，老年自有老年的風景。
青春雖然美麗，但它會隨時間的流逝而褪色，
而青春的〝心境〞才是生命中一道〝不變〞的風景
人到老年，能〝冷靜〞 地去看待婚姻和家庭。
他們知道……
世上沒有〝完全合乎〞男人心意的女人，
也沒有〝完全合乎〞女人心意的男人。
人到老年，〝已懂得安慰自己〞：
並且學會了在似乎無盡的黑暗中…
為自己點〝一盞〞希望的燈。
人到老年，看人看事不像過去那麼簡單。
因此，不必非得按別人的主意行事。
人到老年，開始明白，世事並非黑白分明，在黑白之間往往有〝 一 系! ! ! 列的中間色 〞。
人到老年，開始明白：
人生一世，無論成功與失敗，歡樂與痛苦，盛衰與榮辱，都如自然流水，從哪裡來還將到哪裡去。于是，寧靜致遠。
人到老年，開始明白，〝衰老〞不是從中年開始，而是從對生活的〝厭倦〞開始的。
人到老年，開始明白：孤獨、寂寞、痛苦、失敗，是人生不可缺少的調味品，因此，〝善待〞它們，就是〝善待〞真實的人生。
人到老年，不再有少年的狂妄、青年的浪漫，
更多的則是對生活的 …感悟和理解。
人到老年，不再擁有童年的笑臉和青春的美麗，卻常常在…午夜夢回。
人到老年，能坦然地面對自己的平凡。
他們明白，並非人人都能成功，人人都能大有作為；但做人也是一生的事業，〝只要自己奮鬥過〞、追求過，失敗了又何妨？
人到老年，〝胸懷〞開始變得像〝大海〞一樣，
裝得下…四海風雲，容得下…千古恩怨。
人到老年，可以〝領悟〞到人生最實質、最內在、最主體的內容，可以把美麗的花朵和豐收的果實糅進生命的脈絡，滋養人生 ，豐富人，實現人生。
寫信是快樂的..... 收信是幸福的.....
每一次的寄信..... 代表著每一次緣份的傳遞
掌握當下的緣......
最價有值的事物不是眼睛能夠看到的事物.....
在從紐約到波士頓的火車上，我發現我隔壁座的老先生是位盲人。
我的博士論 文指導 教授是位盲人，因此我和盲人談起話來，一點困難也沒有，
我還弄了一杯熱騰騰的咖啡給他喝。
當時正值洛杉磯種族暴動的時期，我們的談話因此就談到了種族偏見的問題。
老先生告訴我，他是美國南方人，從小就認為黑人低人一等，他家的佣人是黑人，
他在南方時從未和黑人一起吃過飯，也從未和黑人上過學。
到了北方念書，他有次被同學指定辦一次野餐會，他居然在請帖上註明
「我們保留拒絕任何人的權利」。
在南方，這句話就是
「我們不歡迎黑人」的意思，當時舉班譁然，他還被系主任抓去罵了一頓。
他說有時碰到黑人店員，付錢的時候，
總將錢放在櫃台上，讓黑人拿去，而不肯和他的手有任何接觸。
我笑著問他：
「那你當然不會和黑人結婚了！」
他大笑起來：
「我不和他們來往，如何會和黑人結婚？
說實話，我當時認為任何白人和黑人結婚都會使父母蒙辱。」
可是，他在波士頓唸研究所的時候，發生了車禍。
雖然大難不死，可是眼睛完全失明，什麼也看不見了。
他進入一家盲人重建院，在那裡學習如何用點字技巧，如何靠手杖走路等等。
慢慢地也終於能夠獨立生活了。
他說：「可是我最苦惱的是，我弄不清楚對方是不是黑人。」
我向我的心理輔導員談我的問題，他也儘量開導我，我非常信賴他，什麼都告訴他，將他看成自己的良師益友。
有一天，那位輔導員告訴我，他本人就是位黑人。
從此以後，我的偏見就慢慢完全消失了，我看不出人是白人，還是黑人。
對我來講，我只知道他是好人，還是壞人，至於膚色，對我已毫無意義了。
車子快到波士頓，老先生說：
「我失去了視力，也失去了偏見，多麼幸福的事！」
在月台上，老先生的太太已在等他，兩人親切地擁抱。
我赫然發現他太太是一位滿頭銀髮的黑人。
我這才發現，我視力良好，因此我偏見猶在，多麼不幸的事！
這讓我想起讀過的小王子...
小王子的狐狸送給小王子的秘密是:
『最有價值的事物不是眼睛能夠看到的事物,你必須要用你的心去感受.』
聽到,看到的,都不能盡信,
用心去感受,去思考.....
…。…。…。…。…。…。…。 …。…。…。…。…。…。
…。…。…。…。…。…。…。 …。…。…。…。…。…。
這是個好故事
等您〝老了〞才明白…
人到老年，會突然 〝醒悟〞：生命是有盡頭的。
這種感悟會使他們行動起來，去做一些他們很想做但以前總也沒有做的事情，有時，他們甚至用他們〝意料不到〞的方式。
人到老年，才真正〝認識自己〞：
也才真正屬於自己，並且用一種寬容、舒適和誠實的方式接受自己。
人到老年，方才〝明白〞：
東奔西走竭力想去改變的不是別的，恰是他們自己。幾十年的時光換來的不是別的，而是〝心靜如水。〞
人到老年，才真正 〝領悟〞到：
什麼叫百川歸海，什麼叫萬物歸一。
人到老年，開始明白，老年自有老年的風景。
青春雖然美麗，但它會隨時間的流逝而褪色，
而青春的〝心境〞才是生命中一道〝不變〞的風景
人到老年，能〝冷靜〞 地去看待婚姻和家庭。
他們知道……
世上沒有〝完全合乎〞男人心意的女人，
也沒有〝完全合乎〞女人心意的男人。
人到老年，〝已懂得安慰自己〞：
並且學會了在似乎無盡的黑暗中…
為自己點〝一盞〞希望的燈。
人到老年，看人看事不像過去那麼簡單。
因此，不必非得按別人的主意行事。
人到老年，開始明白，世事並非黑白分明，在黑白之間往往有〝 一 系! ! ! 列的中間色 〞。
人到老年，開始明白：
人生一世，無論成功與失敗，歡樂與痛苦，盛衰與榮辱，都如自然流水，從哪裡來還將到哪裡去。于是，寧靜致遠。
人到老年，開始明白，〝衰老〞不是從中年開始，而是從對生活的〝厭倦〞開始的。
人到老年，開始明白：孤獨、寂寞、痛苦、失敗，是人生不可缺少的調味品，因此，〝善待〞它們，就是〝善待〞真實的人生。
人到老年，不再有少年的狂妄、青年的浪漫，
更多的則是對生活的 …感悟和理解。
人到老年，不再擁有童年的笑臉和青春的美麗，卻常常在…午夜夢回。
人到老年，能坦然地面對自己的平凡。
他們明白，並非人人都能成功，人人都能大有作為；但做人也是一生的事業，〝只要自己奮鬥過〞、追求過，失敗了又何妨？
人到老年，〝胸懷〞開始變得像〝大海〞一樣，
裝得下…四海風雲，容得下…千古恩怨。
人到老年，可以〝領悟〞到人生最實質、最內在、最主體的內容，可以把美麗的花朵和豐收的果實糅進生命的脈絡，滋養人生 ，豐富人，實現人生。
寫信是快樂的..... 收信是幸福的.....
每一次的寄信..... 代表著每一次緣份的傳遞
掌握當下的緣......
Monday, February 16, 2009
I BELIEVE IN YOU
I BELIEVE IN YOU
WHEN THE WORLD PULLS YOU DOWN
WHEN YOU'RE FEELING LOW
WHEN NOTHING SEEMS RIGHT
I WANT YOU TO KNOW
I BELIEVE IN YOU
I BELIEVE IN YOUR ABILITY
TO TURN THINGS AROUND
TO GET YOURSELF UP
WHEN YOU HIT THE GROUND
I BELIEVE IN YOUR CAPACITY
FOR GIVING AND SHARING
FOR KINDNESS AND GOOD
FOR LOVING AND CARING
I BELIEVE IN YOUR STRENGTH
TO SEE EVERYTHING THROUGH
WITH ALL OF MY HEART
I BELIEVE IN YOU
WHEN THE WORLD PULLS YOU DOWN
WHEN YOU'RE FEELING LOW
WHEN NOTHING SEEMS RIGHT
I WANT YOU TO KNOW
I BELIEVE IN YOU
I BELIEVE IN YOUR ABILITY
TO TURN THINGS AROUND
TO GET YOURSELF UP
WHEN YOU HIT THE GROUND
I BELIEVE IN YOUR CAPACITY
FOR GIVING AND SHARING
FOR KINDNESS AND GOOD
FOR LOVING AND CARING
I BELIEVE IN YOUR STRENGTH
TO SEE EVERYTHING THROUGH
WITH ALL OF MY HEART
I BELIEVE IN YOU
GOD HAS AMAZING THINGS IN STORE FOR YOU
God Has Amazing Things in Store for You
(This is a powerful prayer)
Stars do not struggle to shine; rivers do not struggle to flow, and you will never struggle to excel in life, because you deserve the best. Hold on to your dreams and it shall be well with you.. Amen.
The eyes beholding this message shall not behold evil, the hand that will send this message to others shall not labor in vain, the mouth saying Amen to this prayer shall laugh forever, and remain in God's love.
Good DAY, your dream will not die, your plans will not fail, your destiny will not be aborted, and the desires of your heart will be granted in Jesus' name. Say a big Amen and if you believe it, SHARE it WITH all your friends. Money will know your name and address before the end of this month. None goes to the river early in the morning and brings dirty water. As you are up this morning, may your life be clean, calm and clear like the early morning water. May the grace of the Almighty support, sustain and supply all your needs according to His riches in glory. Amen.
Love the Lord AND Have a wonderful day in Jesus' name.
The will of God will never take you where the grace of God will not protect you. I see something good happening to you, something that you have been waiting to experience. This is not a joke; you are going to receive a divine visitation that will move your life forward mightily by the outworking of God's unstoppable Power.
(This is a powerful prayer)
Stars do not struggle to shine; rivers do not struggle to flow, and you will never struggle to excel in life, because you deserve the best. Hold on to your dreams and it shall be well with you.. Amen.
The eyes beholding this message shall not behold evil, the hand that will send this message to others shall not labor in vain, the mouth saying Amen to this prayer shall laugh forever, and remain in God's love.
Good DAY, your dream will not die, your plans will not fail, your destiny will not be aborted, and the desires of your heart will be granted in Jesus' name. Say a big Amen and if you believe it, SHARE it WITH all your friends. Money will know your name and address before the end of this month. None goes to the river early in the morning and brings dirty water. As you are up this morning, may your life be clean, calm and clear like the early morning water. May the grace of the Almighty support, sustain and supply all your needs according to His riches in glory. Amen.
Love the Lord AND Have a wonderful day in Jesus' name.
The will of God will never take you where the grace of God will not protect you. I see something good happening to you, something that you have been waiting to experience. This is not a joke; you are going to receive a divine visitation that will move your life forward mightily by the outworking of God's unstoppable Power.