GREAT PARENTING

Dear all,

Do you know that God has richly blessed me with 4 wonderful kids? One has returned to God to live in a better place. Now I share my life with Clinton, Alex and Jasmine.

Now I share my life with my three children Clinton...

I am very grateful that God has given me the opportunity to raise these wonderful children. No doubt it is not easy to bring them up especially in this challenging world.

Parenthood is more challenging than any other jobs in the world. To bring up 3 different children with different temperaments is not easy. I treat each of them differently to bring out their individual interest. It is indeed rewarding to see them become useful adults. No doubt there are no perfect beings in this world. To be blessed with parenthood is one of the greatest joys in the world.

I have realised from my own experience as a father and from research that I have done that the most important role of parents is to love, nurture and to help them to build up the right attitude and self-accountability as well as to develop their inner strength. These criteria are not easy to carry out but not impossible.

To experience successful parenting, we have to be clear that children can't be treated as our property .we have to realise that they are unique with their own characteristics and creativity. They have a life, unlike our house or car. They are given to us by God to love an nurture.

Yes, children are precious gifts bestowed to us by God. Therefore we should always treasure them and help them to blossom like the flowers in our gardens

To enjoy the beauty and fragrance of the flowers, much care, and nurture need to be given. So also with our children. We should always encourage them to pursue their desires and interests. Never suppress them. Then you will see them wither like the falling leaves of autumn. Therefore always respect your child's wishes within limits and allow him to blossom.

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DON'T SET THE LIMIT

Hi ! Gals and Guys,

Don’t set limits

Sometimes when we see someone achieve success we neither feel happy nor congratulate the person for his achievements. Instead, we are envious and jealous of his success. Shouldn't we be happy for him and try to emulate him?

Envy and jealousy would harm us. What we should do is to let his success motivates and encourages us to work harder so that we are also successful.

For instance, it used to be an indisputable FACT that it was IMPOSSIBLE for a human to run a mile in less than 4 minutes.

But then Roger Bannister came along and broke the 4-minute barrier in 1954. 

What happened then?

In less than 3 years, more than a dozen other runners broke the 4-minute mark too - and now, being able to run a mile in under 4 minutes is pretty commonplace among professional distance runners.

Yes, sometimes we need a little spark to ignite your mind to spur us to achieve what others are experiencing. Therefore we have to:

Unleash 

Once we realised that we have our own talents and potentials then we should take the opportunity to unleash them. We should not be bothered that we lack the capabilities to do it. God has made each and every one unique in our own ways. We can never find a replica of ourselves. If we have faith in God n confidence in ourselves every task should be manageable and if we put in enough efforts we should be able to reap success. Go ahead and unleash your potentials both for the wellbeing of yourself and mankind.

We only live once so go all out to make an impact.

Unlimited  

No one is born with limited capability.  It is how you see yourself and how you nurture these capabilities to their maximum potentials.

If you can identify all the capabilities then only can you develop and evolve them to help you to attain success? Give yourself a chance so that you won't regret later. Remember your time in this world is limited.  Therefore pursue them now before you regret. 

Unfold

Once you have identified your unlimited potentials then it is time to unfold them one by one. Now it is time to think carefully and creatively how to utilize these potentials to reap success for you. If you fail once it is ok. Get up and try again. All the successes in life have gone through a lot of trials. Never be afraid of failure. Instead, focus on innovating them until they become successes. You have to be fully committed and dedicated if you want to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Let your voice be heard and your potentials are unleashed for the benefits of everyone. Join us to make the world a beautiful and wonderful place to stay for generations and generations to come. Let us make a lasting and unforgettable impact.

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GOD HAVE MERCY

Hi Gals and Guys,

PRESS ON

PRESS ON

Hi Gals n Guys

Raise Your Words Not Your Voice.

It Is Rain that Grows Flowers, Not Thunder.

Like the previous article, I mentioned that everyone needs to have a dream before it can become a reality. To have a dream and then slowly work towards realizing it. A seed has to be planted before it can become a tree. For example today we have airplanes to bring us to faraway places. This has been made possible by the dream and subsequently its creation by the Wright brothers. Of course what we see today is has been modified extensively. Therefore dream on.

Mind

Once a dream has been mooted, ideas and thoughts will go through the mind as to how to accomplish the dream. Here one has to be selective, innovative and creative to choose those ideas that are beneficial to achieve your dream. Be careful about what goes through your mind. Choose wisely and reap your success. 

Thoughts 

A thought is an idea that comes to our mind. It is good to keep our mind healthy to have healthy and creative thoughts. Thoughts are needed to analyze and modify ideas to achieve the dream. Never underestimate the power of a dream. 

Words

Words can be more powerful than any weapon in this world. Be careful when we say something. Meaningful words can encourage and motivate as well as spur a person to achieve things that are beyond his capability. On the other hand, harsh and unkind words can destroy a person's morale and lead to self-destruction. Think carefully before you said anything lest you hurt someone for word is like a double-edged sword

Action     

A word becomes alive when action is taken. Be mindful of the actions that take. Take appropriate actions that can lead to your dreams being materialized. Then you can shout or scream 'Eureka'. Likewise, with words action can be a double-edged sword. Choose actions that will affirm your dream and not that will cause harm to others. Be creative and wise in selecting your actions and you will be triumphant.

Behaviour

The repeated action becomes behaviour. Ensure our mind is healthy to ensure good and proper behaviour.  Our mind is the epicenter of everything. Make use of it to choose wisely to act boldly. Fear not of its outcome if you have chosen to act positively and radically. If it does not work out have the courage to remedy it. No one is perfect. We must have the courage to undo any less workable ideas and forge ahead with our new ideas. The world is a beautiful place. Let us continue to make it a better and more beautiful place for generations to come. I' m sure everyone cares about it. Let us join hands together and work towards achieving it

Bless you, all my friends. Let us pray for God's wisdom and please pray that God will make me better. Praise and glory to all always. 

EVERY STEP COUNTS

Greetings from Kuala Lumpur.

In my previous post, I have shared that I had 60% of my stomach removed. Initially, I was very concerned that it is going to affect my lifestyle.  I would have a restricted diet and I can only consume a tiny portion of food compared to my pre-surgery days. However, with God's guidance and mercy, I am to accept this situation.

Smaller meals 

It is more logical and appropriate for me to enjoy smaller but more nutritional meals due to my smaller stomach. I now have to take a longer time to chew my food properly so that it can be easily digested unlike previously when i m always in a hurry and would just gobble my food. Now I can take time to appreciate the food which my wife had painstakingly prepared for me. Some would consider this a luxury and a blessing?

Walk 100 steps

Even for normal people, it is wise to walk around after your meals. What more for me. I have been advised to walk 100 steps after each meal. This is to aid digestion as well as for my overall health. Since I have to take more frequent meals it also means that I have to take more 100 steps. Wow !! This is going to improve my health.

Laughing out loud

I realise that I need not be too serious all the time. Why not do a complete turnaround? Why not laugh even at the smallest thing? People may think I'd have gone crazy but what do I care? Their opinions are immaterial to me. I just want to be happy and share my joy. I am sure a happy person will not only be productive but also improve the quality of their work. Yes, laughter is the best medicine. To be able to laugh heartily is half the battle won.

My friends, please try it. Let us know the outcome by putting your comments in the comment column just below this post.

However, I have faith in God as everything is under his control.  I believe He will give another chance to become a better person. Please pray for me. Amen

NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE

Nothing is impossible

"Plan ahead...Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." Robert Louis Stevenson.

I am grateful and indeed blessed by God to be given a second chance to see this beautiful world. I hope that I can be his vessel to share his love with everyone and to bring glory to Him. God, please empower me to carry out Your work.

Never show our weakness but instead use our strength to accomplish whatever we need to do. We need to head directly to head to our intended direction. We have to be clear where we are heading. If we want to experience the sunset then we have to head west and not east.

Faith

If we have faith in the Almighty we do not have anything to fear. Nothing is impossible with God's help. It is important to connect with God at all times and will be there to lend a helping hand at all times. No one will be abandoned by God as promised by Him. Therefore have faith in God and yourself to complete any tasks challenging or not.

Desire

Desire is wanting something desperately. If we desire to achieve something, for instance, I want to stay healthy and rid my body of the cancer cells. Therefore  I have to work hard to make sure that I have the right nutrition, exercise, and medication to ensure that I stay healthy.

Of course, I need God's blessings too. The journey may be long, tedious and painful but there is no choice. I need to stay healthy to accomplish my missions.

Action

If you want to make any significant changes to whatsoever, action needs to be strategized carefully and carried out. A determination is very important to ensure that the appropriate action is taken to complete the task. Let me assure you that to every problem there is a solution. It may take us a long time to unravel it but if we are creative and hardworking and with God's mercy we can definitely find a solution. 

Let us remain steadfast in our faith. Please share my dear friends. With time our thoughts and action are gaining momentum and are being refined.

TO BE UNSTOPPABLE

Hi ! Folks.


"You've done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities. Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable determination." Ralph Marston 

I am so glad that I can greet the dawn of another new day. I can smell the freshness and refreshing air around me. I m so grateful to God to give me this opportunity to be able to see this beautiful world again.

On this beautiful day let us embrace it wholeheartedly and make it a fruitful day.

Process

Right now I need to plan and manage the process of keeping myself healthy in order to recover from Cancer.  I have to make sure I eat healthy food to build up my immune system to prevent the cancer cells from invading my body. I know that nutrition is not enough I also need exercise to keep myself fit and also to have faith in God to heal me. To distract my mind from my disease I am actively posting my articles on facebook and blog.

Energy

Since removing 60% of my stomach I now have a smaller capacity for food. Smaller intake of food will mean that I have less energy to carry out my daily activities. To counteract this, I have to take more frequent meals and pray to the Almighty to ensure that my energy level is sufficient to maintain a healthy immune system for my body to destroy whatever cancer cells if any in my body. 

Mindful

My mind is now focused on the present. Whatever that happened in the past and whatever wrongs that I have committed I now ask for forgiveness. I now would like to dedicate my life to help my beloved family and those less fortunate than me. To this end, I ask God for help.

I believe by doing that I would have a better peace of mind. A healthy mind will breed a healthy body.

We do not have to fear anything if we managed our life well. Always do good and be forgiving. Life will be beautiful then.

Please share this post. I hope it can help someone n lift up their lives. May God's grace be with you all.